By gottacatchemall - 08/01/2014 05:43 - United States
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Much more fun and less painful :) but don't worry about it, maybe it just wasn't the right time. You guys will get there, OP :)
if you are saying that playing a stupid kids game is much more fun then having sex, first time or not, you are doing everything wrong.
#66 you're 19ys old. How the hell can you say when you're older when you are not even as old as the OP? Seriously if people or young adults would tear their faces away from video games, their phones, and the T.V. and come back into the real world maybe you and OP would figure out that there is no better feeling then having great SEX!!!!!!!!
91, that's because you're Asexual. Of course you wouldn't find sex as appealing as a video game. It's likely that sex isn't appealing to you all together. At least OP tried, but yeah it is better to wait until you're really ready for sex. Your first time shouldn't be squandered.
Sex isn't special to ANYONE? Speak for yourself. If some people would rather play pokemon or other video games, cool for them. I'd rather snuggle up with my man's meat sausage and bring one another to physical bliss. And to OP, dont rush it. When the moment is right, you'll know and it will be magical. Until then, enjoy everything that you love in life.
Please excuse the behaviour of #85. Sex can be good, sex can be great even... But only when you're ready and willing and it's with the right person. I completely support OPs opinion to play a "kid game" and wait for the right moment. Too many of my generation around here have lost their virginity for a fashion opinion.
Sex isn't special to anyone anymore, it's overrated? Only in your opinion, becaulse for plenty of others that's bullshit. The "overrated" argument is such shite that I could also say: Pokémon is overrated, skyrim is overrated, but it doesn't mean anything substantial because it's just a bullshit claim (although to me, not completely untrue)
132-- I think they are talking about the first time for women. Op-- it is okay to still be a virgin, it is not a race to lose it. When the time is right, it will happen. My boyfriend and I were not close to being each other's first, but it still took us a few tries before it happened. Just relax, don't stress too much, and everything will fall into place.
By the sounds of it #85 you think that if someone enjoys doing anything but having sex they're sad? If that's the case, I really feel for you. You should maybe try putting it away for a while and finding a hobby, it can be so much more enjoyable. Sex is fun yes, but in my experience only when you're doing it with someone who means something to you and when you mean something to them. To have great sex you need trust and communication. Sex with someone you barely know is just that - sex. It's not great, it doesn't mean anything and you've essentially given your entire body to someone who doesn't care about you but merely the holes you have and there's hardly a more degrading thing to do to yourself. Sure, if some young ladies like doing that, no-one's stopping you but just think whether you want to be a 'good-time girl' for everyone or wife material. Not to say 'wife material' can't enjoy sex, they're just respectable about themselves and who they choose to do it with.
131 - I say sex is overrated because everyone us doing it. It's the main topic now a days. Sex is what produce the show 16 and pregnant. Don't have shows about kids obsessed with games or anything. So to me, yes, sexy is overrated. Only enjoy it with someone who means something to you.
You guys probably weren't ready. It's okay, at least you had fun right?
'Lemme lickitung ur cloyster' was maybe not a very good start..
Wait until marriage. Watch me get tons of dislikes for saying that
You should test drive before you buy. Of course I don't believe in marriage so I prefer to lease, it's easier to trade up.
aren't you cool. I'm sure the ladies love you, knowing that you won't care about them after a certain point. women are so much more than just a pair of legs and a few holes. kind of makes me feel bad for you that you're missing out on having someone special in your life. but hey, there's something for everyone, so you do you buddy. you're cool.
I lost my virginity at 18 and I'm now 28. I'm engaged to be married and my fiance and I live together. We decided that we wouldn't have sex until our wedding night. Part of it was his parents not liking the fact that we live together before marriage. But it's mostly our decision. Although it is hard not to have sex it's actually brought us closer in other aspects of our relationship. And there's nothing wrong with playing video games! Go Pokemon!!
Uhh, 87. If Christians don't appreciate sex, how do you explain all of the Catholic, Mormon, etc. families with half a dozen kids? If that's too abstract an example for you, let me introduce myself: Christian, have only ever slept with my husband, and freaking LOVE sex. I waited until I was a month shy of my 19th birthday to have sex the first time. And ya know what? It was an awesome experience. I chose to wait until I was truly in love, and the waiting made it better. So you can poo-poo this person's choice to wait, or you can decide to not be a judgmental asswaffle. You pick.
I have a general guide line myself on this issue. Marriage is just a pice of paper making an official commitment and causing two people to start sharing half there stuff with each other. I know it's supposed to be more than that but look at how many fail. I feel you can be with somebody in a normal relationship care for them and they care about you and it still be a commitment only without the law being involved.
143 - Of course there's nothing wrong with waiting until marriage if that's their decision, but I fail to understand what waiting for marriage does to show respect for you and your partner. I would think that the respect thing comes with respecting when your partner is ready, and that should be done without regards for your marital status.