By Anonymous - 03/11/2012 01:23 - Canada - Bedford
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My first time wasn't painful at all and was wonderful...well the girl I lost it to was far more experienced than I was so maybe that's why
The first time for girls is usually uncomfortable, but I wouldn't say it always hurts like hell the first time. Personally, I thought my first time was pretty fun, did it hurt? Yeah. Was I sore the next morning? He'll yeah. The initial pain though, all depends on how patient your partner is and how slowly he eases into it. OP didn't mention whether or not her boyfriend was a virgin also, but it's pretty common sense you don't reuse, or try to reuse, a condom, so shame on your boyfriend op.
Not necessarily. If you've spent time strictly on oral/hands leading up to the event (dating for a few months), you become MUCH better at the whole self control thing. It's people who rush into sex that can't figure out what they're doing. You won't be a wiz at doing the deed, but you can atleast get more than 30 seconds in!
That really SEX... Anyone? No? Ok...
You should give the guy some credit, at least he tried. First time is not always what you imagine it to be.
Look on the bright side. Your sex life can only improve :-)