Today, I have my very first gynecologist appointment. I'm 15. My mom wants to "be on the safe side" and make sure I'm not sexually active. This is my punishment for being a virgin. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I went to see a doctor because I have been experiencing hair loss. He insisted on a pregnancy test. My parents then grounded me. I'm a virgin. FML
Today, after I missed my last 3 periods, my mom grounded me for "getting pregnant" and refuses to believe anything else. I'm 15 and never had sex in my life. FML
Today, my dad had his "sixteen years overdue" vasectomy. I'm fifteen. FML
Today, my mom made me take a pregnancy test since I missed my last 4 periods. It came back positive and my mom grounded me. I’ve never had sex. FML
Today, my mom decided to give me a solid reason for not having pre-marital sex. She told me that my future husband will want me to be tight for our first time. My mom and I were on a ski lift. The ride lasted 10 more uncomfortable minutes. FML
Today, I got a letter stating that now that I'm in my mid-twenties, I need to start getting cervical exams. The only people interested in getting anywhere near my vagina are doctors. FML
Today, I was telling my mom that I was really nervous about going to the gynecologist for the first time. Her response, "Oh don't worry, it's not like it's the first time you've spread your legs!" FML
Today, after having had sex with my girlfriend for the first time the night before, she went to the doctor. He said she's still physically a virgin. FML
Today, my mother is such a helicopter parent, she wouldn’t let me go to my first appointment with my new gynaecologist without being in the room, to “keep an eye on him”. When I told her to stay out, she started screaming in the waiting room that I was going to be raped without her there. FML
Today, my crazed and very hormonal pregnant mother told me that I should get pregnant too, so that we can be "preggo buddies." I'm 15. FML
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Enslaved 38
Tell your mom, now that you had something shoved up your ****** by a doctor, you're curious what a penis feels like.
DropTheDaggerxx 31
Better safe than sorry, I guess? That does suck though, seeing as it's not necessary until you are sexually active. So that's a lot of discomfort for nothing. Your mom not trusting you is pretty rough, too. Sorry, OP!
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ToriBrannigan 0
Ya my mon did the same thing to me the other day 1it was awkward as f_ck 2 she told my doctor that the only reason in going is because I like to experiment and she didn't want me pregnant -.-
skyeyez9 25
you can have the doctor make your mom leave the room while the doc does the exam. Also your doctor doesnt have to tell her anything about the exam. its patient confidentiality. Plus, doctors (in the US at least) do not perform virginity exams. your mom is way out of line.
joa76 3
Not to mention that there isn't really any such thing as a virginity exam anyway. All that would entail is seeing if the hymen is intact, but considering that it's possible to be born without one, really easy for it to torn during normal activities during childhood, and technically (depending on a lot of factors) possible to have sex without it tearing...it really means nothing.
Brooke__Lynn 5
Hey that's okay my mom made me go at 13. She didn't even tell me she just took me out of school and made me go. I understand what Its like. I have to Get another one this month -.-
Lil_Lewy 0
I feel like this gynecologist isn't legally allowed to do that....
herpitydurteedur 0
When I went to my first gumi appointment, it was a week after I has started having sex(protected, of course, and with the same person) and I went to get checked out and to get the pill(just To be safe) and after the general health history questions were done she said that she was going o ask me some personal questions and if I wanted my mom to stay in the room or wait outside for the rest of the visit. I said I was fine with her staying but it was awkward, and she did kinda look at me like "you'd better let me stay or else" but it wasn't that bad. 3 years later though I don't let her stay anymore. That and I'm 18 now. Anywho, the doctor can't say thy you're having sex even if you are unless you're a minor and the persons over 18, if you're either 14 and under or 12 and under, or if you're under 14 and your partner is over like 16 or something. But I know they have to report it if you're under a certain age and if there's a large enough age gap. Other than that, if you're not being abused or bein abusive they can't really say anything. Not like you can really tell if you've had sex just by getting checked out. You can break your "hymen"(vaginal corona) while doing gymnastics or horeseback riding or falling onto the rail of your bike and such. There's a reason it hurts like hell. Once again, apologies for the massive wall of text.
herpitydurteedur 0
Whoops, meant to say gyno. Damn iPhone autocorrect.
writergirl23 19
Oh well now shell stop hounding you forever!! :) Look on the bright side OP, if you were a **** it wud be a different outcome ...
808haole 0
That's why I'm glad I'm not a girl... Sorry OP... :/
ChangMu 8
You're fifteen, if you were not a virgin something would be deeply wrong.
ItsApril 0
Happened to me at 13. :/
SociopathicSmurf 6
A. As a minor, you have rights. Legally, even if it is a GYNO Appointment, you do not have to consent to having someone basically rape you. The GYNO can't legally do anything to you, without your consent. B. Contact Child Services, because your mother clearly is incestual if she demands, and thinks she has the right to control your sex life. Just because she can't get laid, doesn't mean she can control you, and it does not mean she has a right to be disgusting. She needs medical help, if she wants to be in the knowing regarding your 'sex' life. Call the police, and have her commited. And use cruelty-free contriceptives. Don't end up being those stupid, idiotic ****** on television who get pregnant, and keep the baby. When you're poor, keeping a baby is a tremendously selfish thing to do, because typically a teenager cannot provide well enough, and will make stupid decisions. No one wants to be around a single mother, especially teen mothers. I have ZERO sympathy for them, when they keep the child, because they are making the child suffer in the end.