Ya my mon did the same thing to me the other day 1it was awkward as f_ck 2 she told my doctor that the only reason in going is because I like to experiment and she didn't want me pregnant -.-

you can have the doctor make your mom leave the room while the doc does the exam. Also your doctor doesnt have to tell her anything about the exam. its patient confidentiality. Plus, doctors (in the US at least) do not perform virginity exams. your mom is way out of line.

Hey that's okay my mom made me go at 13. She didn't even tell me she just took me out of school and made me go. I understand what Its like. I have to Get another one this month -.-

I feel like this gynecologist isn't legally allowed to do that....

When I went to my first gumi appointment, it was a week after I has started having sex(protected, of course, and with the same person) and I went to get checked out and to get the pill(just To be safe) and after the general health history questions were done she said that she was going o ask me some personal questions and if I wanted my mom to stay in the room or wait outside for the rest of the visit. I said I was fine with her staying but it was awkward, and she did kinda look at me like "you'd better let me stay or else" but it wasn't that bad. 3 years later though I don't let her stay anymore. That and I'm 18 now. Anywho, the doctor can't say thy you're having sex even if you are unless you're a minor and the persons over 18, if you're either 14 and under or 12 and under, or if you're under 14 and your partner is over like 16 or something. But I know they have to report it if you're under a certain age and if there's a large enough age gap. Other than that, if you're not being abused or bein abusive they can't really say anything. Not like you can really tell if you've had sex just by getting checked out. You can break your "hymen"(vaginal corona) while doing gymnastics or horeseback riding or falling onto the rail of your bike and such. There's a reason it hurts like hell. Once again, apologies for the massive wall of text.

Oh well now shell stop hounding you forever!! :) Look on the bright side OP, if you were a **** it wud be a different outcome ...

That's why I'm glad I'm not a girl... Sorry OP... :/

You're fifteen, if you were not a virgin something would be deeply wrong.

Happened to me at 13. :/

A. As a minor, you have rights. Legally, even if it is a GYNO Appointment, you do not have to consent to having someone basically rape you. The GYNO can't legally do anything to you, without your consent. B. Contact Child Services, because your mother clearly is incestual if she demands, and thinks she has the right to control your sex life. Just because she can't get laid, doesn't mean she can control you, and it does not mean she has a right to be disgusting. She needs medical help, if she wants to be in the knowing regarding your 'sex' life. Call the police, and have her commited. And use cruelty-free contriceptives. Don't end up being those stupid, idiotic ****** on television who get pregnant, and keep the baby. When you're poor, keeping a baby is a tremendously selfish thing to do, because typically a teenager cannot provide well enough, and will make stupid decisions. No one wants to be around a single mother, especially teen mothers. I have ZERO sympathy for them, when they keep the child, because they are making the child suffer in the end.