By AudraRose - 07/09/2011 16:57 - United States

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Today, I have my very first gynecologist appointment. I'm 15. My mom wants to "be on the safe side" and make sure I'm not sexually active. This is my punishment for being a virgin. FML
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Enslaved 36

Tell your mom, now that you had something shoved up your ****** by a doctor, you're curious what a penis feels like.

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DropTheDaggerxx 31

Better safe than sorry, I guess? That does suck though, seeing as it's not necessary until you are sexually active. So that's a lot of discomfort for nothing. Your mom not trusting you is pretty rough, too. Sorry, OP!

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kirbydumas 10

U don't have to be examined if u don't want to. My mom tried that on me ( I'm a virgin too). Ur parents have no rights over ur sexual health. They can force u into appointments or get ur sex health records. The doctors also cant tell them if u refuse an exam or have STDs

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cp1338 0

You should be a virign at fifteen! If your not I don't see how on earth it could turn out well

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rainbowteehee 6

They won't and CANT tell if Ur a virgin... It's impossible unless theres some kind of thing they put in your blood to tell or something. Lol

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Mira Lux 26

#378, they don't really look for that being it could get destroyed by other means and because some girls aren't born with them

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pigglywiggly12 4

A lot of the time a gyn visit occurs once you get your period because it is healthier to monitor it in case something goes wrong, like an ovarian cyst, which happens to every girl sometime in their life just depending on the degree of its severity is when it becomes a bad thing.

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Sweetpea22 14

Funny, my mom never got then.

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lovelylady2016 6

Switch mothers with me please. I've been trying to convince my mom for weeks to take me to a gynecologist, but she refuses because a 15 year old shouldn't have that area of her body inspected by a doctor

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friedpwnadge 25

Doctor-patient confidentiality, anyone?

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Pineapple_Salad 14

That gynaecologist would be pretty happy with his career choice

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peithecelt 28

so as the mom of a 14 year old, who is actively planning her daughter's first gyno appt in the next year, here's the thing: ****** health becomes a BIGGER deal when you are sexually active, but.. it is better to have your first visit and have a baseline before you are sexually active. she's taking care of you, and it's awkward, but...

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IHaveThePower 16

1. TELL THE DOCTOR YOU ARE A VIRGIN. If they're reputable in the slightest, they'll do their best to make the exam easier. 2. At 15, you need some medical care. Ask the doctor, once they know you're not active, what care you DO need, and have an honest conversation with them about it. Cancer, UTIs, and various malformations are not sexually transmitted in most cases--having a doctor do a check down there to make sure you're not about to have problems is good. 3. Get literature on what periods are supposed to be like. If you have a disorder, you may not know. 4. GET THE HPV VACCINE. It prevents cancer. You may not need it now, but you will be VERY happy to not have to ask 'wait, did I get that?' when you're in your twenties and your supposedly permanent high school medical records get lost. Your mom may be forcing you into this, but she's also given you a powerful tool to take care of yourself. Use it--you will be glad you did later on.

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xaddrus 17

don’t rush to have sex. especially at 15. take your time

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