Today, I have my very first gynecologist appointment. I'm 15. My mom wants to "be on the safe side" and make sure I'm not sexually active. This is my punishment for being a virgin. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I went to see a doctor because I have been experiencing hair loss. He insisted on a pregnancy test. My parents then grounded me. I'm a virgin. FML
Today, after I missed my last 3 periods, my mom grounded me for "getting pregnant" and refuses to believe anything else. I'm 15 and never had sex in my life. FML
Today, my dad had his "sixteen years overdue" vasectomy. I'm fifteen. FML
Today, my mom made me take a pregnancy test since I missed my last 4 periods. It came back positive and my mom grounded me. I’ve never had sex. FML
Today, my mom decided to give me a solid reason for not having pre-marital sex. She told me that my future husband will want me to be tight for our first time. My mom and I were on a ski lift. The ride lasted 10 more uncomfortable minutes. FML
Today, I got a letter stating that now that I'm in my mid-twenties, I need to start getting cervical exams. The only people interested in getting anywhere near my vagina are doctors. FML
Today, I was telling my mom that I was really nervous about going to the gynecologist for the first time. Her response, "Oh don't worry, it's not like it's the first time you've spread your legs!" FML
Today, after having had sex with my girlfriend for the first time the night before, she went to the doctor. He said she's still physically a virgin. FML
Today, my mother is such a helicopter parent, she wouldn’t let me go to my first appointment with my new gynaecologist without being in the room, to “keep an eye on him”. When I told her to stay out, she started screaming in the waiting room that I was going to be raped without her there. FML
Today, my crazed and very hormonal pregnant mother told me that I should get pregnant too, so that we can be "preggo buddies." I'm 15. FML
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Enslaved 38
Tell your mom, now that you had something shoved up your ****** by a doctor, you're curious what a penis feels like.
DropTheDaggerxx 31
Better safe than sorry, I guess? That does suck though, seeing as it's not necessary until you are sexually active. So that's a lot of discomfort for nothing. Your mom not trusting you is pretty rough, too. Sorry, OP!
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Comments (140)
kirbydumas 10
U don't have to be examined if u don't want to. My mom tried that on me ( I'm a virgin too). Ur parents have no rights over ur sexual health. They can force u into appointments or get ur sex health records. The doctors also cant tell them if u refuse an exam or have STDs
cp1338 0
You should be a virign at fifteen! If your not I don't see how on earth it could turn out well
rainbowteehee 6
They won't and CANT tell if Ur a virgin... It's impossible unless theres some kind of thing they put in your blood to tell or something. Lol
Alchemist_21 26
Do you not know what a hymen is?
Mira Lux 26
#378, they don't really look for that being it could get destroyed by other means and because some girls aren't born with them
pigglywiggly12 4
A lot of the time a gyn visit occurs once you get your period because it is healthier to monitor it in case something goes wrong, like an ovarian cyst, which happens to every girl sometime in their life just depending on the degree of its severity is when it becomes a bad thing.
Sweetpea22 14
Funny, my mom never got then.
lovelylady2016 6
Switch mothers with me please. I've been trying to convince my mom for weeks to take me to a gynecologist, but she refuses because a 15 year old shouldn't have that area of her body inspected by a doctor
friedpwnadge 25
Doctor-patient confidentiality, anyone?
Pineapple_Salad 14
That gynaecologist would be pretty happy with his career choice
peithecelt 28
so as the mom of a 14 year old, who is actively planning her daughter's first gyno appt in the next year, here's the thing: ****** health becomes a BIGGER deal when you are sexually active, but.. it is better to have your first visit and have a baseline before you are sexually active. she's taking care of you, and it's awkward, but...
IHaveThePower 18
1. TELL THE DOCTOR YOU ARE A VIRGIN. If they're reputable in the slightest, they'll do their best to make the exam easier. 2. At 15, you need some medical care. Ask the doctor, once they know you're not active, what care you DO need, and have an honest conversation with them about it. Cancer, UTIs, and various malformations are not sexually transmitted in most cases--having a doctor do a check down there to make sure you're not about to have problems is good. 3. Get literature on what periods are supposed to be like. If you have a disorder, you may not know. 4. GET THE HPV VACCINE. It prevents cancer. You may not need it now, but you will be VERY happy to not have to ask 'wait, did I get that?' when you're in your twenties and your supposedly permanent high school medical records get lost. Your mom may be forcing you into this, but she's also given you a powerful tool to take care of yourself. Use it--you will be glad you did later on.
xaddrus 17
don’t rush to have sex. especially at 15. take your time