By How strange - 20/04/2013 12:02 - United States
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That means you must be babe 1! You should feel so special! Or you could be babe 5 or 6... In that case not so much.
Oh GOOD FUCKING LORD!!! Why are you giving the guy the benefit of the doubt? Really? You really think it's just "some joke" with his friends? I doubt it. Highly. OP it's quacking and walking like a duck, so dump it. but be sure to let all the other "Babes" know about each other before you do. No point in leaving him 3 other girls to comfort him after you're gone.
We aren't giving him benefit of the doubt, we are saying there is a chance of it not being what it looks like and it should be investigated to see if that is what he is really doing. If it is then we are all pretty much on the same boat of end it, but some people can work through cheating. I couldn't, but some people can
89- you do realize that saying "well maybe it's just a joke" IS in fact giving him the benefit of the doubt right? Saying "maybe it's not all that it appears to be" is giving someone the benefit of the doubt. He is more than likely cheating, and with 3 other people no less. She should confront him and demand answers, but what else could it really be? If it were me and he tried to say "Oh, uh, it's a little joke between me and my friends" then I'd ask to see the rest of the texts to verify if it's true or not. But honestly that's really farfetched not to mention dumb.
Apparently he has more than one pig on the go! I'd say to sit him down and ask him to talk about it but I can't think of any way this is anything other that cheating. Sorry OP, you deserve better. Also, beware of the "You deserve it, you shouldn't be checking his phone" comments!
33 - I'm sorry that you had that experience. But I'm glad that you were innocent as you didn't know he was a cheater. And good for you for ending that! However, to say that no one would ever knowingly be the other girl or guy is somewhat false, unfortunately. I've known several people who are very willing to be the other person and have no problems cheating. And I've had personal experience with a guy who was very willing to continue flirting with me even after I had made it very clear that I am married and not interested in him, or any other guy, and that I am extremely happy with my husband. But he didn't care that I was married and continued to flirt and genuinely tried to convince me that I'd be 'so much better off' without my husband and that I should be married to him instead. People like that have zero respect for marriage. But for the sake of humanity I really hope that those girls had no idea about each other and the OP.
"Don't hate the playa, hate the game". In this case dump the playa
I'm going to assume these are not his sisters and mom. Have a talk about it with him that A) You better be Babe 1 and B) There is only room for 1 babe so he better start explainin
Name all the guy contacts on your phone babe 1 babe 2 and so on, then when you receive a text ask him to pass your phone