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  SaturnV  |  25

Telling him in a roundabout way instead of speaking with him directly about the problem does both partners a great disservice. She may think she's being kind by sparing his feelings, but by remaining silent, both parties are consigned to bad sex (which may manifest itself elsewhere in the relationship) until they sit down like mature adults and resolve their communication problems.

  Bloink  |  25

i thought this comment was funny cuz i have ADD plus ice cream is my life, and this is something i could see myself doing, so theres a chance OP!

  gracehi  |  31

If he does it right, his movement can help. But in any case, he shouldn't just be lying there with his eyes closed like he's asleep. That's definitely a no no.

  gracehi  |  31

Sex is a joint effort no matter who is on top. The person on bottom should be doing something to encourage the one on top, whether it's moving their hips in sync with the other person, caressing, kissing, talking dirty, a combination of those things, etc.

By  garebear61  |  14

When I am on bottom my girl does most of the work, so if your situation is different hopefully you will follow up and explain??? Anyway, maybe she is just not in the mood for it and didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you she wasn't in the mood for sex!

By  introductionn  |  13

She could've just figured out that she wasn't in the mood anymore, rather than saying you're bad at sex .. although it could be because you're bad at sex. who knows, it's a two way street