By bad in the sack - 05/07/2014 04:26 - United States

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Today, my girlfriend and I were having sex. She was on top, and then stopped, got off, and said, "Let's go get ice cream." I think this was her way of telling me I suck at sex. FML
I agree, your life sucks 55 165
You deserved it 11 463

Same thing different taste

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rp713 4

If she was on top she was in control, why should it be your fault?

Or maybe she just has different priorities, or A.D.D... But you probably do suck in this case.

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Dodge4x4Ram 46
nlm92 15

That's not what it means OP. After a while of being in a relationship you'll find that this happens more often. Just have fun with it, you'll finish later. She had a craving and I doubt it was a subliminal comment on your abilities. Sex doesn't happen like in **** or movies. Whether you're good or not things like this will happen. Just roll with it, you'll bond and have even more, better sex in the future.

I hate to break out to you, dude, but that behavior is definitely not normal. People generally don't just stop in the middle of sex without explanation, and they definitely don't immediately suggest an activity that requires getting dressed and leaving the house. Usually when someone stops in the middle of sex it's because they're too tired or sore to continue and they say so and hang around to cuddle for a little bit. They don't just stop because they suddenly got a craving for ice cream.

Grace, unlike OP's girlfriend, you are on top of it today. All of your comments have been spot on and offer quality truths about a mature sexual relationship.

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HAHAHAHA no. The only way you could possibly think this way is if 1) you've never actually had sex, 2) spoken to a girl, and 3) know absolutely nothing whatsoever having to do with sex. Good sex is mutual. That's Sex 101, free of charge. You're ******* welcome. Pun intended.

Not to get too personal....but not long ago with my guy I ended up getting dry and it hurt....I finished him another way and was honest. Just stopping in the middle of sex and leaving? That's weird.

That's possible but it could be he wants to get ice cream to celebrate how good you are Let's go with that latter of the two

I think finishing him would have been a better way....

Oh dur!!! Yes you do suck, because she is actually wanting to suck an ice-cream instead of you.

Maybe, she didn't think you were into it. Try to show some enthusiasm?

damnit1989 16

Well, she was on top, so maybe she is the one that sucks at it.

if she was on top then it's her that sucks at sex.