By Anonymous - 28/12/2012 15:14 - Canada - Montreal

Today, I woke up with an engagement ring on my left hand. The same one I refused last month. My boyfriend apparently waited for me to be drunk to propose again last night, and has already posted the pics on Facebook. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 441
You deserved it 15 988

Add a comment

You must be logged in to be able to post comments!

Top comments

Congratulations!

Talk about an overly obsessed boyfriend. Time to move to Yemen and raise goats.

Comments

Congratulations!

Mazel Tov!

At least you didn't wake up to him using your hand to wank?

She found something much more unwanted in it.

That's more messed up than you're BF using your hand to wank, oh wait...........

See above comment to understand why you're both being down voted.

161--see time stamp I posted that at the same time the other poster did, to the second.

There is time to edit for 2 minutes

176 - That's 2 minutes to think of a witty comment! Let the man breathe D:

Also, the person here talking about waking up to him using your hand to wank posted BEFORE the person above saying it. Check your timestamps, 161.

194-exactly. You just proved my point

I like how the comment above says the same thing as the first one that has 273 thumbs up and this one has 26 thumbs down

Just be glad that this doesn't force you to actually be engaged to the guy.

But drunken words are sober thoughts... Or not as the case may be. I hope you at least told him he needs to back off a bit..

Actually drunken words are rarely sober thoughts.

In vino, veritas.

Talk about an overly obsessed boyfriend. Time to move to Yemen and raise goats.

Whatever floats ya goat

Chandler did that to Janice. *nods head* smart suggestion

Being a single woman in Yemen isn't all it's cracked up to be.

My profile pic answers this..

Manipulation at its finest

Quite clever. Not that I agree with it though.

I don't think that's clever. Just low.

Your boyfriend seems obsessive and weird, get away while you still can!

Maybe OP and her boyfriend have been dating for a long time and the boyfriend actually wants a lifelong relationship? Maybe OP is leading him on and would rather break up than be committed for life? Or not. Just a suggestion.

The OP already said no to the first engagement. Regardless of whether or not OP is leading him on, tricking her like that was obsessive and plain weird. I'd personally feel uncomfortable and victimized.

OP's boyfriend didn't get her drunk. SHE did that. And if SHE is leading him on, it's her fault that this happened. OP's boyfriend may have also been drunk, which would very much explain why he put pictures on Facebook. It sounds like OP is leading him on and he isn't obsessive, but serious about the relationship.

She may just not want to get married at this time if not at all but still want to be with her boyfriend. That is not an uncommon thing. Don't say OP is leading the boyfriend on, we do not know the whole story. Good luck OP my boyfriend put a ring on it but I chose it, hope things get straightened out for you.

117 - her boyfriend WAITED for her to get drunk which kind of insinuates that he was sober. also, since we're assuming, why can't we just assume that OP and her boyfriend have been in a relationship for a long time but they're only 18 and OP doesn't want to get married yet? i mean, we can come up with a whole bunch of assumptions.

Guess it's time to break up then

Then what?! What happens after?!

I don't understand why people are thumbing ^him down. The first poster used the wrong form

No they didn't. Probably could have done with a comma and a full stop to clarify, but other than that it's fine.

I wonder if "drunk statements are sober thoughts" applies here..

That statement never applies...

Yeah, it actually does sometimes

Obviously it doesn't when it is the same ring she turned down last month...

It could, it could just be altered because she was drunk. Such as she wants to be engaged just not to him.

See... It doesn't apply, you tards thumbed me and everyone else down in the previous fml about drinking, when we said drunk talk does not equal sober thoughts, and once again its obvious proof that it does not.

Or she wants to be engaged to him but there's a reason she knows that she can't.

93- That statement is quite generalized.

Wait a minute 93, people thumbing you down is proof that they are wrong? Why do you waste time finding out if people are thumbing you down. Doesn't that make YOU the (in your words) tard? I personally don't see any way to prove the drunk words/sober thought thing as either true or not true, but I wouldn't waste my time calling people names because they disagree and thumbed me down. (Just so you know... I don't check, so feel free to thumb me!)

You shouldn't stand for that you should probably break up with him. Because if he waits till you are drunk to ask you to marry him just so he is sure you will say yes, imagine what else he might try to do while you are drunk ...

True, however it's possible that he was also drunk, which is why he decided to propose again even after his previous failure. I personally haven't ever proposed to anyone, however I would imagine it's pretty crushing when they say no. This is of course all assuming that he was also intoxicated... If he wasn't then I agree that OP should break up with him.

#18, could be, but he was sober enough to think to take photos and post them to Facebook. OP, anything to add on all this?

Just imagine if OP didn't want kids! Would he.... oh God....

Drunks are fully capable of posting Facebook pics, the site is full of half dressed, highly intoxicated college kids. I say ask him what he remembers before doing anything drastic.

she doesnt love the poor boy anymore (>_

Alcohol makes you speak the truth, maybe you do want to get engaged to him.

No, it really doesn't. Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes it harder to not just do the first thing that comes to mind. She didn't want to marry him while sober and she didn't want to marry him while she was drunk, she just didn't think things through the second time.

yeah! alcohol make the bitch speak the truth, she doesnt love the poor boy anymore (>_