By turnedoff - 18/06/2012 01:00 - United States
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Funny, while I agree he should definitely trim a bit it seems odd to me that there isn't the same "peoples bodies are their own" and "people don't have to shave if they don't want to, its a personal choice" comments when there is a case of gender reversal. Where are all those adamant defenders of the individuals right to do what they want without caring how their partner feels? Is it because in this story the individual in question has a penis or have you all just come to your senses?
I wasn't replying directly to you, and read your comment a little too briskly - assuming it meant that you should do it for your partner. How typical that I just had to put my comment below one of the only ones giving a similar message to what I was saying wasn't being delivered. Good to see you notice the bias as well though.
Downtime - It's probably due to the fact that society allows men to do either without judging, whereas it seems almost expected that a girl should. Therefore there is less of a need to defend the minority - or the "it's their body they can do what they want" stance. Or at least that's my theory. Personally I agree with the "it's their body" thing, but I don't see any problem with their partner politely/maturely asking them if they would mind doing something that they would appreciate, but ultimately the decision is with the person whose body it is.
It seems like a polite request, Cinn. But if you've ever been on the receiving end of that request it feels a lot like an insult - which makes one want to stop letting that person see you naked ever again. It seems to me Ops man felt insulted too because his comeback about her needing to floss is kinda a similar insult. He's insulting her oral "grooming" as it were.
When they get stuck in your teeth and ripped out, tell him to think of it as waxing considering he refused to shave.
Er, I've had the full waxing experience, and while I do agree with some personal grooming, aka manscaping, once was enough. ;p Weird that he seems that attached to his pubic hair though (figuratively.) You'd think receiving oral sex at the cost of a trim would be highly motivating for some.
41- Oh, if continuing to get oral attention rested on manscaping, Challenge Accepted. Wax, shave, trim, whatever. ;P I also agree that if a neat and trim pubic area is OP's preference on her boyfriend, odds are she's already adopted that habit of personal grooming for herself. It only makes sense after all.
42, I wouldn't ask my boyfriend to take care of himself if I'm not taking care of myself. Nobody wants to be with a hypocrite. And as we already agreed on, when it comes to sex, men and women rather have sex than not. Side note: props, to you, on willing to wax for your girl but I'd never ask my man to do that. Hot wax next to a penis sounds like a disaster and makes my lady balls hurt just thinking about it lol.
Big mistake getting him to shave down there. Makes for a very prickly ride!! He could at least trim and tidy up the bush though...