By waterspike - 29/01/2010 13:18 - France
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OP didn't leave because he so totally loves this girl. That means he'd do anything to be around her. I think it's sweet, but I feel so sorry for you.
Yes, that may feel like love for him, but this is merely infatuation. And I blame the media for pronouncing such infatuation as love, and also for stating that giving absolutely everything for a girl will somehow make her love him back. I also had a hard time being a doormat for numerous girls. OP, please go read a book about healthy relationships, live by it and your life will turn around, guaranteed. You deserved this one for being a doormat, but your life sucks for thinking this way about girls. (Such a book helped me a lot too. Before I have read it I couldn't get any girl except those not even worth mentioning in retrospect. After I have read it I soon got into a situation where I had to choose from two girls who were crazy for me and any of them outdid all my previous attempts at dating. 'Nuff said.)