Victim blaming

By whatjusthappened - 06/09/2013 00:46 - United States - Loveland

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Today, I was asked by my neighbor to stop jogging in our neighborhood because he keeps catching his son whacking off while watching me. His son is 28 years-old and still lives at home. I'm 18. FML
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flashback.miss 28

What?! Tell your neighbor that if his son acts like a perverted voyeur then he needs to keep an eye on him. Who does that father think he is telling someone they can't jog in their own neighbourhood?

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shellzy 20

Judging by how his dad handles situations like this, can't say I'm surprised.

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flashback.miss 28

What?! Tell your neighbor that if his son acts like a perverted voyeur then he needs to keep an eye on him. Who does that father think he is telling someone they can't jog in their own neighbourhood?

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simplysarcastics 26

Exactly, its his son that needs to be told what to do. He has a issue and is perversely watching a young girl. Creep. Keep being healthy op and get your jog on; just avoid that creeps house, find a cool park or another route.

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Dramori 29

@11 - he has an issue or he has a tissue? :)

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simplysarcastics 26

#15 haha gross. I guess he has both! Lol

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aka_Specs 7

I'm sorry but the 28 year old dickwad, needs to get his shit together and move out. Running around the neighborhood trying to better yourself is a lot more practical. Tell the father to go **** himself

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TheDrifter 23

The father does have a point though, a change of route might be good. Avoid the creepy wanker's house before he gets bold and turns into the creepy kidnapper.

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Little4Bear 10

His father has no point. What he needs to do is tell his pervert of a son to stop being a creeper, other than telling OP to stop jogging in the neighborhood. This 28 year old must have a sad life.

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RedPillSucks 31

I think you're missing the 2nd point of TheDrifters comment. It's like saying, don't go to this neighborhood cause you might get robbed. No one responses "well tell those people to quit robbing someone". OP might be prudent to jog a safer, less creepy route.

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queerdragon 20

RedPill has a good point. The father warned her about and she should, for her safety, pick another route to jog on. It is not saying the son is winning, it is taking precautionary measures.

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tannara 12

Tell him to close his ******* blinds

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ball_crusher 4

women should not be forced to change our lives as a "precaution". start telling boys not to ******* harass us.

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joeyl1990 28

You're a ******* idiot. Thank god that telling people killing was bad stopped murder.

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shellzy 20

Judging by how his dad handles situations like this, can't say I'm surprised.

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AKGirlinSD 20

Yep! His dad will always protect his son, even if his son is doing really awful things. Nothing ever good comes out of those situations.

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judea95 16

Exactly! Maybe he should protect his son by removing the door from his room so he can't be a pervert.

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little_excel 5

I think it's more like the other way around when his son keeps walking on on him

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WaltzingPhanthom 23

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

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MsSoulReaper 27

Why do you have to stop? His son needs to control himself.

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NoFlippinWai 24

Actually, The son (however, gross) is not out of his legal rights. Op is over 18. Op is outside and has no legal right not to be watched. The Son is not exposing himself to, forcing himself on, or contacting op in anyway. So the son is within the law, sadly. The father doesnt want to condone the behavior or have it encouraged (or escalate), so if nothing else the father was looking out to protect Op. It probably took a lot of courage to tell you and admit his son is a creeper. That is not to say op is doing anything wrong except being sexy, sadly it is not legally persuable.

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zawesomee 14

Tbh, I would rather jog somewhere else than jogging there and knowing that creep is watching me.

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SanpakuEyes 18

While I agree that he shouldn't tell you not to jog, that's pretty creepy. I would continue to jog but take a different route.

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TheDrifter 23

I think that's what the guy was saying in the first place, that it would be best if OP didn't jog past his house.

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westcoastkp 13

Maybe she wears very provocative clothing while jogging? Which she should also take into consideration.

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SunAndMoon427 12

So she should have to be hot and uncomfortable because this guy is a perv? No, not at all. Even if she jogs in shorts and a sports bra, that's her choice and gives him no rights to treat her as a sex object like he has been. She shouldn't have to change her clothes because of him, her jogging route, yes, but her choice of clothing does not mean it's okay...it seriously makes me sad when I see girls sit and **** shame other girls.

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Mynameislinh 24

How does his son manage to do this, without anyone seeing him through the blinds (besides his dad, of course)?

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iAlissa 34

There's these window clear boxes called windows...

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Little4Bear 10

Why does this even matter?! It's PERVERTED!

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westcoastkp 13

I was wondering how long he even sees her run? If she's running fast, it probably takes 10 seconds for her to pass the house?!

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AllThingsBright_ 11

That's how long he probably lasts anyway.

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JennyK1414 13

At least you know now to stay away from that block! That's disgusting.

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Lennox_B 8

Lol that's just gross

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reveal 10

say's the girl in her underwear

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Llama_Face89 33

So? Not like you can really tell without creeping on her profile..

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Jasper1405 16

Well in a certain way he is just inspired by your sportive behaviour to start doing some right arm exercise of his own

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