Victim blaming

By whatjusthappened - 06/09/2013 00:46 - United States - Loveland

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Today, I was asked by my neighbor to stop jogging in our neighborhood because he keeps catching his son whacking off while watching me. His son is 28 years-old and still lives at home. I'm 18. FML
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flashback.miss 28

What?! Tell your neighbor that if his son acts like a perverted voyeur then he needs to keep an eye on him. Who does that father think he is telling someone they can't jog in their own neighbourhood?

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shellzy 20

Judging by how his dad handles situations like this, can't say I'm surprised.

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Wizardo 33

1. His son has no finesse 2. He seriously needs to sort his life out 3. You probably could get an officer to give him a warning as a deterrent at least, maybe that will work.

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Wakachulak 22

Officer? For whacking off in your own house? Hell, if that was a crime, I'd be doing life with no parole by now!

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Treveyon56 14

But the fact that the son is jacking off to watching OP could be reason enough. This wouldn't be the first time an officer was called for this.

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NoFlippinWai 24

No. Its Not. The son is within his rights.

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Wizardo 33

Yes he is within his rights as he is in his own house, however he's jacking off to OP and now she knows and if she feels uncomfortable about it she's within her rights to tell an officer, not to arrest him but maybe to cite him. That's all.

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Llama_Face89 33

Dudes doing nothing wrong in the eyes of the law. There's nothing OP can do legally short if a restraining order.

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mealsonwheels 12

What is wrong with you OP, jogging in your own neighborhood making all the liitle 28 year old kids who live with their parents jack off. Shame on you.

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XanderScythe 11

Today, my son jacked off to a girl running down the street. Even though I demanded she stop, she won't and she thinks I'm in the wrong. FML

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Mightytall 35

What a creep ... actually two creeps. The dad is a creep too, for making his sons obsession your problem. You are supposed to be able to run around freely doing your thing and not have to worry about assholes whacking off watching you. Talk to the police and or a counsellor for sexual harassment. This sounds like a stalking/rape case in the making.

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Dracoboxer357 35

16- You know, it doesn't sound like the father's really all that creepy to me. I kinda got this visual of a guy at his wit's end about what to do with his deeply disturbed son that he keeps finding masturbating to anything even remotely female, and in desperation, wants to remove the temptation before anything Could happen to her. He could just be looking out for her safety, if not dignity, in a way. :p

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NoFlippinWai 24

#20, I agree. The father is probably embarrassed. The son is within legal rights. The father doesnt want it to escalate, so he does the most logical and embarrassing thing, admit the son is a creeper. Infork the person he is spying on and hope they change their route. US law is kinda stupid in the way that there is no way to prevent dievant behavior until after they have hurt someone.

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Avenueoftrees 15

Why would he tell you what his son is doing? You have some creepy neighbours!

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NoFlippinWai 24

to hope Op changes the route so the behavior doesnt turn violent.

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SweetasCandy0609 28

Wow your neighbor had some serious issues if he seriously thinks that this is in any way your fault smh what an idiot.

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Wiz_Of_Oz 17

What a perverted kid your neighbour has- Wha? He's 28? ... ... ... What a perverted kid your neighbour has.

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lbrown66 12

FYL OP! It must be terrible to have people find you attractive!

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Fluffydemise 18

So you would be flattered if some guy was secretly spanking the monkey to the sight of you in some spandex? Kudos to you, it's hard finding positives in bad situations. Most people would find that pretty ******* creepy!

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siggy_mcsigx 22

You don't know how many times I had to read this because I thought OP was a guy

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SexyQueen0905 24

OP could be. There is no gender symbol at the top of the page. Personally, I also imagined him as a guy. Makes it funnier.

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Trooper665 4

Yup, guy has issues. Great parentin' too, blame someone else for his actions instead of correctin' his 28-year old ass. Continue to run.

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RedPillSucks 31

The parent is not blaming OP, simply making OP aware of the situation so that if she (he?) chooses to and is creeped out, she would take a different/safer route.

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