By Gurior - 04/09/2011 07:01 - Canada
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Jesus, people. I'm just saying, if what he wanted was sex, why would he leave someone who gave him just that (although not enough) if leaving her meant getting none at all? I think HIS OWN logic is messed up. And I'm also saying, I don't agree with it. leadman1989, it's kind of fucked up to assume that about me. I'm not sexist. I don't know where you got that idea.
Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, communication is. My husband just like every man wants sex all the time but before we got married he knew that sex wasn't important to me and he loves me more than sex. That's disgusting that you think sex is important. Trust me kids and marriage dull down the sex...
I guess all these people saying that sex isn't important must have some boring ass sex lives. Like that one guy said stop having sex and start making love hahha. Sex IS an important part of a relationship and if it aint happening in enough frequency all you get is static.
(Anyone else but chippa shouldn't read this, it's rather long) 1&9- I did not see anywhere in the FML saying anything about OP wanting more sex than was necessary. Most men have sex running through their minds more often than we'd like. Say all OP wants is sex once a month and he'd be fine with just that, but what if his ex would only have sex every two months. Is he still a pig for wanting sex more than his ex had wanted it? I'm sorry but also your argument about him being thoughtless of his partner goes out the window with you saying he should wait to break up until he finds somebody else. The whole point of a relationship is to love that one person and you stay true to them. How can OP do that and find someone else to date at the same time without being a "pig". Your argument confuses me. Also, if anybody reads through this small book I wrote above you deserve a sticker.
the funny thing is you people complain about guys with active sex drives, but the second you get denied i bet it becomes "what, are you gay?" or some equivalent stupidity. by the way, who says youre such a catch that anyone should need to stay with you? you all clearly dont offer sex, and nothing about your personalities - ie judging the preferences of others requirements in a partner - is overly appealing.
I don't think breaking up with a girl bc she didn't want to have sex as much as he did is bad, if he at least tried to talk to her about it. If he told her he wanted more sex and she refused him, why should he stay unhappy? It's dumb. He did the right thing by leaving her bc if they have as much sex as he wants, she won't be happy and if they have as much sex as she wants, he won't be happy. Over 6 billion people on the planet, I'm sure they can find more compatible partners.... well, in theory. this guy might just be a loser or really ugly if his condoms expired. I mean... a few YEARS? either he's too choosy or he just doesn't try at all. man up dude and fuck a chick already it's not that hard
Well of course every one of them, you bought them all at the same time, didn't you?Redundant much?
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You broke up because you weren't having enough sex? That's pathetic dude. If that's all you care about go home and masturbate. Don't screw up someone else's life so you can enjoy a few minutes of pleasure you selfish pig.
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Like what's like?? Obviously men who want sex and only sex are pigs. You don't go out with people for sex. You go out with them cuz you love them. You obviously don't have a soul. Are you sure your not a Ginger. ?
Some of the logic on here is so insane. Anybody who isn't in high school any more realizes that sex is a part of a relationship. I know I'm going to get thumbed down by the huge HS population on FML, and some random girl will be like "well I'm 87 and never had sex cause it's evil and" blah blah blah. Truth is, sex is not the most important part, but it is AN important part of any long term, loving, and healthy relationship. If OP had a drastically different sex drive than his ex, then he made the right choice to end it. They obviously weren't compatible. And that just sucks. Why go through that? When there will be a guy better for her and a girl better for him. People have the mentality that you should avoid a break up at any cost, but you need to meet different kinds of people to find out what you like and what works for you. Especially when you're young. You don't want to marry the first person you ever date because you're taking such a huge chance. Some get lucky, but it's not likely. And not ideal. OP, you're in a dry spell, it happens. You gotta just get out there and you'll find a girl that's right for you. Don't ever feel like you have to stay in an unhappy relationship, especially when a giant group of people who judge you when they know almost nothing about you.
Damn this man cradle speaking truth like a prophet haha. But the the girl above him, who goes on dates with someone cuz you love them? You sound like a creeper because most people who just start to date don't love each other yet most of the time. That grows with time youngn this isn't fairy tale land where loves just comes out of your ass in an instant. It's like a plant that needs to be taken care of and nourished and sex is part of that nourishment.
70, you go out with people because you love them? You don't only date someone when you love them. You date someone to see if theres anything there worth loving. It takes a while to actually be in love, not after one date. I dont think that sex is the only thing that matters in a relationship but I think that it is important. For some people sex is a way of expressing their love for someone.
I totally agree :) :D stayin in relationship just because u dont want to break ur gf/bf heart or u r afraid of what people may think AIN'T good reasons to stay in a relationship! Some people stay with their bf/gf just to avoid being alone.... its called LYIN' (to u and to ur gf/bf)
#91, I agree completely with your comment. I'm 20 and have been with my bf for almost 3 years, and I would definitely say that sex is an important part of our relationship. people need to be in a relationship with someone who shares the same desire and need for sex. otherwise it just cause problems and is a huge reason as to why many end up cheating.
So what should he have done stayed with her? Marry her be unsatisfied for the rest of his life? No he didn't waste her time or his he ended the relationship and now they're both free to find more compatible partners. This is a dark post in FML history I think he deserves to have it reposted and all the idiots not allowed to vote or comment.