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interesting how you associate purity ring with right and lack of purity ring with sex focused. i wouldnt date someone with a purity ring either because i think its nonsense, this doesnt mean the only thing i focus on in my relationships is getting laid. fuck her life because she fell for someone who doesnt share her ideals, and fuck his for having you idiots judging him for wanting a complete relationship with a real person. you do realise two opposing viewpoints can still be correct right?
It's sad that I can only see the dirty half of your pic #1. And it's an FML for OP, finally realizing that boys care about sex more than anything. Not that this changes much as try grow into adulthood, but I like to believe I have matured a bit since the hormones first kicked in. Like to believe that anyway..
16: I see your point and I agree with it. If that's the case, though, a simple explanation would be the polite thing to do. By just hanging up, he's not only reinforcing the whole sex-crazed stereotype, but also stereotyping her as someone who would judge him for his differing opinion.
98: OK, so I phrased it poorly. To me, a sudden "I gotta go" after an exchange like that may as well be a hang-up. My point still stands-- something like "Oh. Well you're a cool chick, but I think sex is an important part of dating" would've let OP know he disagrees and it's a deal-breaker, but that he wasn't just trying to get in her pants. In my opinion, it's just common courtesy. I'd apply the same idea to any deal-breaker-- politics, religion, lifestyle choices like veganism, etc.
Fuck that bastard. Find someone worth your time who doesn't just want sex.
27: I don't see the problem with talking about sex before dating. Discussing the biggies-- sex, family, religion, etc.-- lets you know of any major worldview differences that might affect your compatibility, *before* you invest your time and emotions. That stuff is just as important as knowing someone's sense of humor, interests, and personal tastes.
Dude, that's like saying the veil Muslims wear are dumb. If you don't agree with someone's belief's thats okay, no one's forcing you. But it's ignorant to call someone's actions based on faith 'dumb' if it doesn't hurt anyone else. If OP wants to wear a purity ring, who are you to judge her for it?
I find purity rings a bit creepy, considering most purity rings are given to girls by their fathers. You can still hold your values and not have a "purity ring."
Considering you want to push your morals and values on your future child, I pity her. You can still be a good, nice, intelligent and decent person whilst having sex. Don't forget that. Oh, it's also funny you think your daughter won't be having sex because you gave her a purity ring.
What if your future child doesn't want one? And are people so damn weak minded that need a friggin plastic circle to remind to keep their values?? Fuck that. If you don't want to have sex, JUST DONT HAVE IT. It's simple. Purity rings are stupid and the ceremony is on some creepy ass shit, son. Real talk.
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Wow asshole! she just want's to save sex for her future husband and she remembers her promise through her purity ring..... it's better than being a whore with either a baby or some kind of sexually transmitted disease!!!! I agree with her views and the guy she was tlkn to obviously wasn't wort her time!
Dude. I bet you have a purity ring because of the Jonas Brothers? Woooooow.
The toilet seat thing is a myth. This is about the only scenario where I can see anyone catching an STI from a toilet seat: the person before you had genital herpes and decided to rub their cooter all over the seat. Then, immediately after they were done, you decided to do the same thing. But really, in what instance are you going to grind your bare genitals on a toilet seat.
I'm only just realizing how little people know about STIs, safe sex, and what not. It's quite concerning. If you're going to take part in sexual exploits, you should atleast be educated enough to know where STIs come from and how to have safe sex. I thought it was a requirement to take atleast one semester of health class to graduate highschool! Ay caramba.
Safe sex= a condom, the pill, etc. However, it is true that condoms can break. You can use birth control pills if you don't like the feeling of condoms, but that doesn't protect you from things like HIV or herpes. And with either of those, there is a chance albeit a small chance, that the birth control could fail, or the condom could break. So, it is technically true that the only "safe" way is abstaining. But, if you use a condom correctly, or take your birth control pills as you are supposed to, there shouldn't be problems.