By Highnapple - Canada - Sarnia
  Today, my boyfriend was pleasuring me with his hands. After two years of being together, he was finally about to make me orgasm for the first time by himself. Just as I was reaching my peak, he orgasmed at the thought of finishing me off and stopped. FML
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By  Purexinsanity  |  46

Two years is a decently long time of being together. Maybe try remembering what he did today and guide him next time?
Don't give up! I'm sure you'll reach that wonderful O if you both keep working on it!

By  dawood_k  |  27

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By  GreyTulip8763  |  13

I'd take that as I compliment if I were you!

  alitairi  |  18

if the compliment is sort of like, "you have a big nose, your eyes are too close together and you have a broad forehead.... but your smile is nice!"

  greekk  |  21

It's not the guys fault. The OP knows she has a problem finishing that's why she has stayed with him after 2 years. half of you on here seem like virgins lol.. I've been with a few women in my day and I've managed to get all to visible completion except 1. it was her not me. I tried for 6 months to get there and couldn't. it was her.

  brittanysue14  |  10

Excuse me but why is it anybody's fault? Instead of blaming each other, people need to work together to find a solution. That's the FAULT in this world. Everybody wants somebody else to blame. And I'm pretty positive OP didn't ask to be born with a vagina that was difficult to make cum, but it's totally her fault right?

  mikbrooke  |  25

#73 given it says he was about to make her orgasm for the first time by HIMSELF, does that not suggest to you that she can manage perfectly fine and that she doesnt have a problem?

  bab3ruthl3ss  |  16

Yeaaaah no. Dude doesn't even appear to really try. If you're at least working for it, then power to you, A for effort. This dude just gives no fucks about her happiness.

  mfmylifesrsly  |  29

73 please read what 90 said.
and even if a woman has a problem orgasming, you shouldn't just "stop" pleasing her. you should stop when she said she's had enough.

  greeneyedx  |  23

That doesn't make it her fault. A person should keep trying, no matter how long it takes them. If someone is able to on their own or by helping their s/o, then it's obvious that they can. You wouldn't want a chick to give up on pleasing you to completion, would you? So don't do it to her.

By  Gauzy21  |  12

Hahaha small dick? Or no skill.

  VeganDarkLight  |  31

Seems like Gauzy thinks big dick=better sex, which is wrong. Also, not giving a woman an orgasm doesn't mean someone isn't skilled. I've had good sex without ever having an orgasm (except for when I'm masturbating during it).

  Enslaved  |  36

Or he could have just continued with his hands (since it was working just fine).
Sounds like the BF was no longer interested in pleasing the OP after he gets his own rocks off. Very selfish of him.

  CaitiieBuggs  |  23

While I agree it is a dick move to not help your partner out, some people (mainly males) have such high hormonal spikes after orgasm they really do fall asleep almost immediately and genuinely can't help it.
This doesn't sound like the case with this particular situation however, and I feel OP would have added him falling asleep if that was part of the problem.

By  marulicko  |  19

Later today, here on FML: today, I was finally about to make my girlfriend orgasm after failing for two years. I then came just as she was about to climax... FML