By Anonymous - 06/07/2009 19:21 - United States
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#4...agreed with the first half of your post 100% Girls who know what they want..are MUCH easier to satisfy then girls who have no idea. Explore and know your own bodies. Men and women. If you know you like something a certain way..ask for it that way. If you don't like certain things...say so. Not difficult.
That is true for the most part, however, is easier sad than done. Have you ever tried to tickle yourself? It doesn't work. An external force is required for some physical reactions. Things you do to yourself are not necessarily going to feel the same when performed by someone else, and vice versa.
#40, he means explore yourself through others. It's absolutely essential to do so if you ever want a meaningful relationship. OP, I may be able to help you out a little; Try an exercise called Touch Sex. Get naked, comfortable, and ideally blindfolded (being that vision takes up so much brain power, if you can't see, all your other senses share a part of the computation and become more acute), and have your boyfriend touch you in various ways. Different intensities, different body parts (for both; get him to use his elbows, it can have a huge effect), all over your body. Using objects like feathers or vibrators can help as well. As he does so, pay attention to how your body reacts, and note what feels good and what doesn't. If any places get you instantly aroused, tell him. These are your erogenous zones, and will, at the very least, get you closer to an orgasm, if not give you the most powerful of your life. Also, reversing the roles can help too; explore his body to find out what feels good for him. If you know how to get him going, it may just raise your arousal levels as well. And finally, explore everything; even the most unexpected spots can produce incredible results. In particular, the neck, nipples, thighs, lower legs, and anus are excellent places to try, as the nerves there are extremely sensitive, rarely experience touch, and generally have thinner skin, meaning the nerves are closer to the surface.
Figure out what it was about the bike that got you off and try to make him replicate it. It's totally possible that he just can't find your clit.
yeah because us males can make our penises vibrate to get you women off. Ever hear of the washer machine? Vibrations (like a dildo) can set a woman off. If I could make my penis vibrate I would probably make every women orgasm. Since no man has that ability maybe try to guide your boyfriend on how to work some angfles or get a dildo