By Anonymous - Czech Republic
Today, I was sitting at my favorite coffee shop, when a creepy 50-ish looking guy sat at my table. He asked if I'm into submissive guys, and if I wanted to dominate him. I'm a 17-year-old girl, and am now scared to ever go back there. FML
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106- more women than men read it, but my bf and I both read it out of curiosity. We both found it stupid but plan to see the movie anyways. Porn pretending it isn't porn is always good for a laugh. There was a study done and the people who liked the book the most, regardless of gender, also had the weakest grammar and writing skills and often lowest levels of education... Interesting as those into real bdsm (trust me 50 shades isn't even close) showed higher education levels and intelligence levels. Actually likelihood of practicing bdsm directly increases with level of education. The more you know!!! :p


A submissive ephebophile. But in my experience (don't ask) submissive men get off on any large age discrepancy in either direction because it disrupts the power balance that much more. So I would bet submission is the more powerful urge. Just my take.


65, that is younger attracted to older. You have that backwards. Teleiophile is someone younger attracted to mature adults. This is a case of older attracted to a teen. An ephebophile, like perdix said.

  Sputnikspak  |  13

31: And when I was 14 I looked almost exactly like I do right now (pushing 30), only about 15lbs thinner. Wonders of having DD-cup boobs. Age can be hard to determine from puberty-mid 20's. It's still creepy to hit on someone like that. I remember walking the dog when I was 15 and some guy at the gas station who was like 45-50 started macking on me. It's awkward and uncomfortable as hell.

  NagainaFier  |  16

For what? His proposition was creepy, but I don't think it was illegal (so long as he backed off when/if told she was underage). 17's not that far off from 18 physically, and unless she's the type who looks waaaaay younger than her actual age, how's the guy suppose to know?

  BellaBelle_fml  |  23

I would at least inform the manager of his creepy behavior so as to prevent him from continuing this behavior in the future which may escalate into actual illegal behavior. If I were a manager and something like this was happening in my store, I would definitely want to know about it so I could ban him because it is creepy and could lead to losing paying customers.

  Catkam623  |  27

He is noor just likes company but she's extremely shy and sends perdix out to find attractive 18 year olds to help her so she doesn't have to do all the work(or meet them)

  Pussycat86  |  18

First thing that popped into my head reading this Fml was you, second thing is that I think she wants you to comment on this Fml? Like she is asking for your opinion on this matter, anyone? No?

  perdix  |  29

#51, an interesting take on the story. If she found him creepy, she should say she's not interested and if he doesn't back off, complain to the store staff to back him down. You shouldn't have to give up your favorite places -- the wrongdoers need to get banished.

If you do find an older man who treats you with respect and you are comfortable with, you might want to give it a cautious go.