By painedandpissed - 10/08/2014 16:42 - United States - Los Angeles
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He at least could have made an excuse that he couldn't come over, like something came up or something. Not just nope.
Well she could be a raging bitch while on her period or he could be superficial and only want to get laid. But I know it's hard enough for me not to backhand the shit out of my mom when she is on her period. I literally asked in middle school if she was so I could avoided and she slapped the shit out of me and then dropped me off. Some girls just use it as an excuse to let out fucking hidden aggression and it's really annoying.
Alright I know lying is disrespectful, and I'm not saying he should lie just to opt out of the date because she is on her period. If I were in his shoes I would go anyway, but if he doesn't want the choice of going, like the guy above said, he should've said a white lie. Something not to serious.
So basically he wants to be in a relationship 3/4 of the month smh
Why would you mention it then? I mean, FYL OP, but I don't see any reason for you to have mentioned that.
I'm with #70. If it's her boyfriend, it's supposed to be someone who she trusts and is comfortable talking to, so it would be normal to come up in a conversation. Something among the lines of "I have so many cramps today, I'm not feeling so well" wouldn't be inappropriate IMO. If he can't handle it, maybe he's not mature enough to even be having sex in the first place.
I've already seen a comment saying that you should immediately move on, and I cannot say that I agree. A healthy relationship should be built on communication. Before you do anything drastic, like flat out leaving him, I would try explaining to your boyfriend that what he did was hurtful. If he is still immature about your time of the month, say, refusing to spend time with you during it, after this talk, I completely advise you to end the relationship. Best of luck, OP. I hope it works out.
I agree that they should talk things out before breaking up. Yes, he acted like a complete dick, but I'd want to know why. If he is still being rude and insensitive after they talk than by all means please dump him. And I don't understand how people are saying he only wants her for sex. She didn't ask if he wanted to come over for sex, she asked if he wanted to come over to watch a movie. And although he said no when he found out she had her period, I don't think this 100% means because of sex. I think there's a big chance he doesn't like how she acts when she's got her period. I know a lot of girls who think having their period gives them free reign to be a bitch, complain all the time, and treat people (especially their boyfriends) like crap. Again, not excusing him in anyway, but I think there could be other options to what's happening here and think she should talk to him about it before just dumping him.