He still should of treated you to a nice dinner :(

I agree. It's really fucking sad that a lot of people in long-term relationships (and especially marriages) end up thinking their partner is only good for sex after being together for so long. No wonder people end up miserable- they treat the people they're supposed to love the most like absolute shit. If I was with someone, I'd take them out to dinner just so we can treat ourselves and have fun and if spoil them, honestly!

That's just being complacent. You can't expect them to sustain the romance for decades. It's a little difficult.

How is it difficult to be romantic at least every now and then??

#31 you absolutely can be romanic until the day you die. That is just an excuse.

My grandparents were known for holding hands and were romantic until the day my grandma died. Even when my grandma was very sick and my grandpa had to be a full time caretaker for her as her physical health deteriorated. I'm sure it's hard, especially at stressful times, but it's completely possible.

"Should of"? Really?
Go to bed, No dinner for you.

I thought I was the only one thinking that.

That's a dick move on his part, OP. Hopefully he wasn't serious

Actually, no dick moved at all

He couldn't have been serious. There'd still be a point because that's what a period is. I'll excuse myself now.

tell him you remembered how small he was anyways and 'theres no point anyways'

Great advice.... You should be a marriage counselor....

that makes no fucking sense what if he had like a 16 inch cock?

#47 oh God that'd be awful

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@5 That's a silly thing to say. You don't even know if they practice a religion.

That's insensitive. Tell him you want him to make it up to you, and no sex until he does!

.. And it might take a while.

Lol. I have always wondered if the "no sex" thing actually works. Or maybe I just don't care if I don't have sex every other day :p

You shouldn't use sex as a reward or withhold it as a punishment, but if you're pissed off at them then obviously don't feel like you have to have it anyways.

Next time keep that part about riding the cotton pony a secret until after desert has been served.

I don't know about you, but I'd prefer dessert.

OP shouldn't have to keep that a secret, her husband should want to spend quality time with her even if it doesn't lead to sex.

She shouldn't have to hide something like that to be treated well by her partner. Plus maybe he found a used pad or something and that's how he found out

if thats what he has to do just get some action, at least some thought has gone into it.

If he wont spoil you when you are on it then does he deserve you to begin with?

That made me laugh, but is seriously a dick move on his part. He needs to treat you right.

Very observant of you