By instinct - 12/06/2013 03:06 - Australia - Doncaster East
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apparently calling someone a b* isn't acceptable. wow. I assumed it was with how many people do it
Gynecologists are used to it. It has to be almost impossible to make one of them uncomfortable.
Why fake pleasure? Why not try to teach your boyfriend how to pleasure you, instead of trucking him into thinking he's doing ok. Kind of defeats the purpose for sex.
Sexually active women have regular appointments with their gynecologists. It's healthy. I'd suggest booking an appointment ( since you didn't know) unless of course you're too young for sex, in which case why are you participating in this clearly adult conversation?...
its things like this that makes a guy look else where for pleasure and a girl who is up to make things better if he sucks
I usually don't give these out a lot, but you 100% deserve it.
Don't fake pleasure. Instead, teach your bf how to pleasure you, because well, sex is supposed to pleasure you. Right?
Can we tell your BF that you're a faker? That's a bitch move right there. What's the point of sex if you know you're not fully into it? YDI.
At this point I would like to interject at say what if he does care about her feelings, and she cares about his, and that's why she fakes it? What if it's that she's just plain not into sex, but he has needs. She loves him so to make him feel good she pretends to be into it so that he will behappy
Because if he knew she wasn't into it, he wouldn't want to do it, but that wouldn't change that hormone flow. Perhaps she didn't want to make him use his hand all the time and isn't into oral. Had to continue in a second one because I wasn't allowed more than three sentences.
132, it feels like she's not into me anymore and I would feel inadequate if I were op's bf. I'd like to have some confidence that I'm making her feel good as opposed to her just faking it and lying to me about it. I'd rather have her tell me what to do to make it better than fake it. That's extremely harsh what op is doing. Communication is key.