By Anonymous - 13/07/2011 05:02 - United States

Spicy
Today, my girlfriend, who is very self conscious about her body, finally decided to have sex with me. She told me to wait a few minutes, so I did. I stripped and turned around to find her in a one-piece swimsuit, with a hole cut out of the crotch. FML
I agree, your life sucks 81 819
You deserved it 8 527

Same thing different taste

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sarahmcgeee 5

and you posting this FML isn't helping her much with her problems she's having boyfriend of the year award guy. give it up for him! :)

sydneymwfca 10

That's really sad. You should help her boost her self esteem, tell her she's beautiful every single day. It's either that or you can have unenjoyable sex.

exactly. good insight; OP can really have a positive influence on his gf's self image.

I like how everyone assume it's the man's fault, as if this even is an issue of fault. Chick has poor self-esteem. You obviously haven't met anybody with significant mental issues if you think telling someone every day how attractive they are is going to change their self-image. It definitely doesn't hurt, but I love the sexism on fml.

justanotherbird 19

Telling someone how they can help their gf feel better DOES NOT EQUAL telling that person it's their fault their gf is insecure.

Telling her she's beautiful everyday is nice, but I think it's more important to make her FEEL it, not just by compliments. Because I mean, people can tell you something everyday of your life, but it's hard to believe it if there's no action to back it up!

Symmetry88 0

Hope u told her u love her and her body and did not have sex with her in her one piece.

aww poor baby! let her go on! she probably didn't wanna do it but did it for u anyways!

Talk about assuming #8 ? Op could be upset because he thought his girlfriend finally trusted him enough to see her body.

wow, this girl was not ready for sex. "finally decided...". sounds like you asked and asked and after some time you talked her into it. the fact that she came out with a bathing suit on sounds to me like she wasn't ready. now her first time (again another assumption sorry) won't be what it should.

that's awful poor girl. she is obviously insecure, especially about your feelings for her. if she can't trust you enough to feel comfortable being naked around you then you shouldn't be having sex. she needs to be told that she's beautiful and loved, not ridiculed on the Internet. I don't think you deserve her.