By ItSucks - 01/01/2010 05:12 - United States
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wow. he's not even worth it, then. D:Ii'm sure you could do way better! C:
I think it depends on the guy, cause well I think it when they make the first move so I kissed this one guy after a week, this other guy after a month and this other guy after a day. but OP you should've pulled your boys head from hers, punched the b*tch in the jaw and kicked your guy in the nuts. haha
Why not? It's not like there's anything wrong with that. It's also not necessary for some people. But there's no compelling reason not to, other than sexual desire. Some people find it more fulfilling to remain virginal until they're married. It can be a special thing you share with someone you love more than anyone else. Chill.
I never understood the whole "wait until you are married" thing....... How does a f***ing piece of paper and a celebration transform intercourse from something completely wrong into something "romantic", "fulfilling" and what not? If you do it with the one you love, it's the exact same thing if you do it before or after marriage. Not to mention the fact that, if the newlyweds are both virgin, there is a 99,99% chance that the wedding night will be a complete disaster!
I've noticed the people that wait till marriage get married very young and they generally marry their first serious relationship. That's just a disaster waiting to happen. I even had a friend who's aunt waited till marriage and after 1 night she left her husband, turned she was actually lesbian and just didn't know it till she did the deed.
I grew up in NY and lived in Ohio for 3 treacherous years, and I can tell you, it's very feasible that they've dated for 2 months and not kissed yet. It's the Bible belt, full of ex-Amish, Mennonites, tent church revivals, Lutherans, Evangelists, and Pentacostals. The only people it is not heavily populated with are Catholics. At any rate, it's one of those places in the States where you still get a gold star for your virginity, both male and female. It's freakin' scary.
2 months and not even a kiss... um..... I think that says it all.