Love: Today, I realized I can never live with my fiancée. A childhood...

By silentsuzie - 12/02/2010 15:23 - United States

Today, I realized I can never live with my fiancée. A childhood of systematic teasing, abuse, and humiliation has made me terrified to use a bathroom around a guy if there's the slightest chance I can be heard, seen, or even have anyone know what I'm up to. Therapy has yet to fix anything. FML

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You deserved it 5 439

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By Anonymous - 04/03/2021 05:01 - Canada

Today, I finally told my boyfriend that I see a therapist every week because, amongst other things, I'm terrified of being locked in a room. He didn't believe me, so he locked me in the bathroom "for a laugh." I had a panic attack and passed out. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 751

You deserved it 124

Shy bowels

By Dragoness11 - 27/03/2014 14:12 - United Kingdom - Northampton

Today, I still have my ridiculous fear of being heard on the toilet, and I can't go if people are around. I'd just sat down on the toilet when three of my housemates started chatting immediately outside the door. I had to sit silently until they were gone. For half an hour. FML

I agree, your life sucks 39 125

You deserved it 9 648

By Anonymous - 27/01/2013 06:03 - United States - Demorest

Today, while getting intimate with my girlfriend, I felt a sharp pain in my stomach, and had to run to the bathroom to evacuate my bowels. She heard the horrible sounds, and I doubt I'll ever be able to seduce her again. FML

I agree, your life sucks 35 036

You deserved it 3 908

By s3xygrandpa - 06/11/2013 19:09 - United States - Palm Harbor

Today, despite my fear of using public restrooms, I was forced to anyway to avoid my bladder exploding. I was finally getting over it when someone stuck their head under the stall to "see if someone's in there". I'm scared more now than I was before. FML

I agree, your life sucks 48 721

You deserved it 5 121

Boundaries please!

By mary - 08/06/2018 05:00

Today, my boyfriend threatened to break up with me because I still close the door when I go to the bathroom. He pees and poops with the door wide open and expects me to do the same. FML

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You deserved it 418

Boundaries

By Anonymous - 19/07/2021 19:59 - Korea Republic of

Today, I found out that both my boyfriend and his brother feel completely comfortable going into the bathroom and talking to their mother while she is on the toilet. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 078

You deserved it 142

By drew - 07/09/2010 17:06 - United States

Today, I accidentally walked in on my girlfriend changing. She responded by screaming, throwing herself on the ground to avoid me seeing her, and crawling into the bathroom. We've been living together for 2 months. FML

I agree, your life sucks 38 618

You deserved it 5 316

By TheDumper - 21/06/2012 10:02 - United States - Chandler

Today, and for the last week, I've resorted to driving myself to the nearest corner store to take my daily dump. I'm doing this because I recently moved in with my boyfriend, and I'm afraid he'll be disgusted at how often I clog the toilet. FML

I agree, your life sucks 14 198

You deserved it 30 074

By Bailyboo - 26/01/2012 23:50 - United States

Today, I admitted my fear of small spaces to my boyfriend. His response was to immediately lock me in the hall closet. FML

I agree, your life sucks 31 162

You deserved it 4 766

By apparently_disabled - 17/04/2015 06:24 - Canada - Victoria

Today, I was trying to make a good impression with my fiancé's friends. After a few hours, I thought all was going well. As I walked to the washroom, I heard, "So what disability does she have? No one can be like that without something wrong in their brain." FML

I agree, your life sucks 33 127

You deserved it 2 927

cursesonyourmom 1

Friday 12 February 2010 20:11

buy a little radio and play it in the bathroom. even if your just putting on makeup. that way he can't hear you and doesn't know what your doing.

lolorly 0

Friday 12 February 2010 20:06

"If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! You will feel much better for it." ~Mao Tse-tung

Comments

rachexl 0

Friday 12 February 2010 22:57

what is this a convention of people with weird bathroom fears? ive never heard of anyone being scared of taking a shit yet every other post on here is me too omgomgomg i thought i was the only one!!!!!!!

PsychoMerk 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:02

drop a steaming pile! :D*

JojoPotatoe 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:07

I think I know how you feel. ^^ *fills up with sympahty*

mzhonesty 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:23

What EXACTLY happened to you during your childhood?

skyeyez9 24

Friday 12 February 2010 23:26

Am I the only one on here who thinks taking a huge, satisfying dump in the morning while reading FML on my iPhone is the best way to start the day?

mshafty 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:44

Nope! it's a great way to start the day. Though i'm on my droid!

rb2_addict 0

Saturday 13 February 2010 1:16

LOL agreed and well said. guess where I am now...

taintedtruffle 42

Thursday 23 October 2014 23:51

:) i prefer to poop at work that way I'm getting paid to shit~

jahicken 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:32

this belongs on postsecret, not fml.

cytoloopy 1

Friday 12 February 2010 23:33

#74 why is this so weird. I've been through it and continue to...

kelleyb323 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:41

I used to have that problem and after 2 years of going to the bathroom at walmart, I can now use the bathroom in my boyfriends apartment as long as he is distracted or sleeping and the sink and vent are on. :)

0p3nl0v3 0

Friday 12 February 2010 23:50

YDI FOR BEING A CHILHOOD PANSY. go live ur life with 50 cats fat cat lady biatch

Blatstuff 0

Saturday 13 February 2010 0:30

125, You're a dimwit. I hope while spending time incarcerated (as it's obviously the path you are on) Bubba and Jim-Bob take pleasure in giving you some deep-seeded fears and anxieties. Moreover, I hope you are treated with the callousness you have displayed here. Low life.