By silentsuzie - 12/02/2010 15:23 - United States

Today, I realized I can never live with my fiancée. A childhood of systematic teasing, abuse, and humiliation has made me terrified to use a bathroom around a guy if there's the slightest chance I can be heard, seen, or even have anyone know what I'm up to. Therapy has yet to fix anything. FML
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cursesonyourmom 1

buy a little radio and play it in the bathroom. even if your just putting on makeup. that way he can't hear you and doesn't know what your doing.

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lolorly 0

"If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! You will feel much better for it." ~Mao Tse-tung

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thatsoviciouS 0

I know how it is. I use to get made fun of when I went to he bathroom. And even to his day I am scared my family will hear me go bathroom. FYL and mine Ps I am only 17 /=

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Dakota469 0

I'm right there with ya and I'm 26. Although, my fiance I can handle hearing but when my family is over or my children even get close enough for me to hear them I get too anxious to go.

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darkmis1 17

Well you know you're going to have to live with him eventually. Like when you get married.

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Gstone5 0

all those who put YDI are ******* morons, she cant do anything bout her trauma assholes. and yeah put music on it will help, specialy if u put it loud he wont even know wht u doing  or u could just explain that to him, im sure he will understand. and at the begging u can just tell him to go outside while ur in the bathroom. there problem solved i hope  good luck

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flyer_fan13 0

everyone knows girls don't poop

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Luckster 0

My anxiety isn't nearly as bad, but I do feel for you. I don't like using the bathroom publicly or if my boyfriend is in the room RIGHT next to it here at home because I'm embarrassed of the possibly reactions if I end up letting one rip in the process (bathroom echo). I blame high school for that, cause apparently 'girls aren't allowed to fart, and if they do, they deserve to be teased'.

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kathyfan 0

This is a really weird FML.

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Fabby_fml 2

Yeah, when my boyfriend started staying over a lot I had the same issue. You get over it eventually.

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Blatstuff 0

Any mental illness can be very hard to let go of. That being said, if your therapist is not helping you overcome your fears, it is time to try an alternate therapist/method. Dont give up on yourself or your relationship if you truly love this person. Not every therapist or method works for everyone.

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skyshark 0

I know a great book you can read that will help you with this. It's actually been used by thousands of people. It's called "everybody poops" or if you're catholic "that's concentrated evil coming out if your butt" courtesy of Family Guy.

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