Boundaries please!

By mary - 08/06/2018 05:00

Today, my boyfriend threatened to break up with me because I still close the door when I go to the bathroom. He pees and poops with the door wide open and expects me to do the same. FML
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If anything, you should be threatening to break up with him, not the other way around.

Tell him that’s fine. You’ll keep the door closed and if that’s a dealbreaker for him, he can go. This isn’t the kind of thing you should be expected to compromise on. It doesn’t affect him at all. And what’s next if you do give in?

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Just get rid of him. Something is very wrong with him especially if he threatens to break up over something like that. You are entitled to your privacy.

If he wants to break up so bad over this little thing then let him. The fact that he wants to break up over that means he most likely wasn't worth it anyways.

If he wants to break up so bad over this little thing then let him. The fact that he wants to break up over that means he most likely wasn't worth it anyways.

If anything, you should be threatening to break up with him, not the other way around.

Why were you still around after the second time he peed or pooped with the door wide open? (The first time could’ve been an accident, where you issued an ultimatum that it never happen again.)

Tell him that’s fine. You’ll keep the door closed and if that’s a dealbreaker for him, he can go. This isn’t the kind of thing you should be expected to compromise on. It doesn’t affect him at all. And what’s next if you do give in?

Simple. Get a second toilet for a tandem event. It’s all about teamwork.

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PenguinPal3017 19

I've heard of open-door policies, but this is just ridiculous!

Mungolikecandy 19

Coprophilia is a strange thing.