By AudraRose - 07/09/2011 16:57 - United States

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Today, I have my very first gynecologist appointment. I'm 15. My mom wants to "be on the safe side" and make sure I'm not sexually active. This is my punishment for being a virgin. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Tell your mom, now that you had something shoved up your ****** by a doctor, you're curious what a penis feels like.

Better safe than sorry, I guess? That does suck though, seeing as it's not necessary until you are sexually active. So that's a lot of discomfort for nothing. Your mom not trusting you is pretty rough, too. Sorry, OP!

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polkadot3155 6

some parents take their daughters after they get their first period.. in a way it might make it easier when they get older but I'm 16 and sooo scared of the pap smear you have to get when you are 18!! haha

kaykay20 0

I admit pap swear appointments are uncomfortable but they are necessary. I suggest you or anyone go in for daily appointments after getting your period. You do get yeast and bacterial infections from other things besides sex.

I wasn't aware that a gyno could tell if you were sexually active by examining you.

they can check to see if you're still a virgin by seeing if the skins split

You mean the hymen? You can "break" that in other ways, too, not just sex.

89 - Not to mention some girls are born without a hymen at all.

It sucks that your mom doesn't trust you, but like others have said, it can't hurt to go to the appointment and make sure everything works properly.

no punishment for being a teenager, in this sexually active society.

perdix 29

It could be worse. She could take you for a colonoscopy to get you a fresh start for a career in anal.

No you little brat, it sounds like the appointment would happen regardless. The punishment would come if you WEREN'T a virgin and you had the appointment...

Mokiikom_fml 8

^ THIS!! ^ Edit: Augh, FML is messing up again, my comment didn't appear at first and now it's double posted... :-/

Tbh.. You never know nowadays.. Teens are becoming sexually active younger and younger..

I think you made that up based on anecdotal evidence. Try statistics next time. I hate that everyone thinks that young people are suddenly getting sluttier. Yes, this generation is more open towards talking about sex and it's portrayed in the media more often, but it doesn't mean that, I don't know, married people in the 50s actually slept in separate beds. Sleeping together was just more of a taboo topic than it is now.

leadman1989 15

Tell her you've only done anal , and that you're holding out on the vag for Mr. Right.

herpitydurteedur 0

That's like, the opposite of what I'd do. Of course I've only been wih one person in my life and I don't plan to be with any others so... But still. If I was raised in a way that would make my morals allow sex with more than one person I would only let "Mr. Right" in my ass. Just my pov.