By tiffany - Canada
Today, after having lost 11 pounds following my pregnancy, I felt sexy and put on a cute outfit for my husband. When he walked into the bedroom, he ended up passing me three times, and then went to bed without a word. FML
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  LiterOfCola  |  16

OP just said it was a cute outfit. Her husband might not have even noticed a cute outfit as anything different than normal if she dresses "cutely" (lol) often.

  DjeePee  |  24

But still... not saying a word? Not even a "Ow, honey, you look so cute/sexy/lovely"? If my husband (considering I had one) would go to sleep without saying anything at all, sexy outfit or not, I would immediately think he's mad at me. It's normal to be not always a sex-loving beast in bed, but ignoring your partner... Gosh, I hope my relationship never reaches that cold point.

  Osito2011  |  9

Why do women think all men are mind readers? I know it is chivalrous for men to complement women. Honestly that's only in old English stories. If you want a complement or something, give legitimate hints, and not the mind reading hints.


You shouldn't need to be a mind reader to know that it will hurt your spouses feelings to go to bed without even acknowledging her presence. And as for hinting at compliments: we want sincere compliments, not ones we had to fish for.

  1215116a  |  14

I think she's okay with not having sex for a day, she didn't injure herself.

  tidbits5197  |  28

16 -
* Yeah
* fine
Ahhhhh forget it, you're hopeless. xD


I actually could see why you asked if she's okay. It would be a slap to the face especially with how hormonal and emotional you already are from having a baby.

I know if it were me it would probably make me feel unwanted. Men supposedly always think of or want sex, so when turned down or ignored by your spouse even with out the factors of having a baby it would make a girl feel pretty bad.

Sorry OP, I would just talk to him about it. Remember he has a whole life outside of the house his mind probably wasn't focussed or something. He could even be trying to not bother you for sex thinking you are exhausted with the baby. Sometimes it's hard to read people. Especially us women. It's like a blonde trying to figure out a rubix cube. Next time take charge. Get dressed up and tell him what you want to do. As well as what you want him to do to you. If he isn't in the mood he will be.

  fmessiah  |  17

^More likely he has been turned down the last five million times he has made a move and doesn't even bother to try now and didn't realise what she was attempting to do. If she'd whispered in his ear to come up in five minutes she had a surprise for him it might have had a different ending. Either that or she had baby spew/poo in her hair.

By  Enslaved  |  36

Ummm sounds like a dad that's tired because he is also taking care of his child.

Try getting him in the morning when he's rested. Who doesn't enjoy morning sex?

  downtime  |  12

That last sentence of those comments where timing is everything. For instance, you can say this on FML, but it would be awfully awkward at a funeral.