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  Tookie22  |  5

Is he a Mentally abusing husband? Damn sorry OP you should be proud of yourself and keep your head up. 20 pounds is a lot of weight so good job. Just remain healthy and smile.

  AKGirlinSD  |  20

I'm hoping OP's husband is wrong. Maybe they were dieting together and he didn't get the same results? Just a wild guess because he didn't even congratulate her. Congrats OP!

  spazz666  |  18

If she's a bitch, being attractive wont make her personality more likeable. Don't be so quick to assume its his fault. Even if she's turning heads he'll probably still think her personality sucks.

  speckledots  |  29

Pushing herself to lose weight to please and satisfy her husband doesn't really come off as the "bitch" attitude for me. Its actually more caring, and thoughtful in doing something to please someone else. Opposite of bitch actually.

  letmehavemytea  |  21

Chances are that her husband is the asshole here, though. What kind of spouse pushes someone to lose weight and then insults them even more afterwards? You're better off without him, OP.

  riack  |  2

You assume too much. We don't know if he pushes for her to lose weight. It's possible she wanted to lose weight on her own to please him, but perhaps he's like this now due to all the marital problems they had. There's too much unknowns here to just call him an asshole

  niplipsip  |  9

no, he's an asshole. the other variables don't even matter. his statement was rude and pretty hurtful to op. doesn't matter if she is, fact is... he is. lol.

  speckledots  |  29

Noone knows if he was pushing her to lose weight. All we know is that out of the kindness of her heart she was losing weight for him, to make him happy. The comment he made happened to have been a very asshole-ish one. That doesn't really make him a 100% asshole. None of us know what's going on with their relationship. Maybe she was losing the weight to try and bring some spice back into a failing marriage? Lets not all assume things here.

By  perdix  |  29

At twenty pounds lighter, you suddenly have become a lot more marketable. There are plenty of guys who will tolerate a drab personality to have access to a hot body.


*Suddenly a wild fat OP appears*

If she started out at, say... 240lbs and lost 20, she is probably still fat. Depending on her frame, of course. We don't know how much she weighed at first.

  perdix  |  29

#67 and #69,

What about the opposite scenario? What if she started at a thin 105, and went to an anorexic, emaciated 85? Not likely, but you have to consider all the possibilities. Ok, maybe you don't.

By  Keevarou  |  16

Two options usually, divorce, or marriage therapy (forgot the other word)
But that's a nice job to lose 20 pounds, so he is the issue, not you as the story stands so far, you were willing to change for your husband, so he is damn lucky.