By 123alleyesonme - 02/11/2012 04:17 - United States - Austin
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He won't be acting that way when other heads start turning in your direction.
Noone knows if he was pushing her to lose weight. All we know is that out of the kindness of her heart she was losing weight for him, to make him happy. The comment he made happened to have been a very asshole-ish one. That doesn't really make him a 100% asshole. None of us know what's going on with their relationship. Maybe she was losing the weight to try and bring some spice back into a failing marriage? Lets not all assume things here.
At twenty pounds lighter, you suddenly have become a lot more marketable. There are plenty of guys who will tolerate a drab personality to have access to a hot body.
Two options usually, divorce, or marriage therapy (forgot the other word) But that's a nice job to lose 20 pounds, so he is the issue, not you as the story stands so far, you were willing to change for your husband, so he is damn lucky.