By pooh anne - 26/02/2013 20:26 - United States - Fort Smith
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14, I know lots of guys that would get turned on by a wardrobe change, just like there are some guys that get off on seeing their girlfriends dripping wet and freshly out of the shower. :P It's sexy when it's not meant to be sexy (or something along those lines) :P
Maybe he could have put it in a better way, and at a better time.. Like while you're grocery shopping he casually says, "Hey honey.. I think we should start eating healthier. In fact, we should get a membership at the gym too and lose a little weight together. " While it wasn't the best scenario, at least he included himself.
I know exactly what you mean - I think it comes off as voyeurism for people... and a tease to others (most people don't get naked then re-dressed while changing, they do a piece at a time) But, it was probably on his mind already - seeing you reminded him - he made a matter of fact statement about the both of you - doesn't sound like any direct criticism of you personally. Guy sounds fairly honest and grounded.
What a Jerk he just a guy WHO wan't a sexy body all people Are sexy!
It probably had nothing to do with you changing. Think of it as something you can do together and strengthen your relationship.
I think it probably was the changing. He sees his own body pretty front and center any time he changes in a fully lit room and now he's watching her directly change. There may be a more tactful way of saying "we seem to have gained some weight over the last few months/years" but I wouldn't take offense to it.