Like everything else in a relationship, sex has it's ups and downs. A man or woman is never, ever, ever required to have sex when they do not feel like it. What's with men thinking they can demand sex whenever they want, put in basically no effort, and if they don't get it immediately use it as an excuse to cheat? There is never an excuse to cheat in a marriage. Need to get your rocks off? Try some foreplay or bust out the ****.

im not saying they should have sex five times a day or anything i get it sometimes you just dont want to but they always use the same excuses im tired or my head hurts why dont they just take a pill and have a quick five minute quickie? or tell your spouse why you really dont want to have sex they dont communicate they dont have sex or anything then they get divorced sex is something beautiful why not try spicing it up most of them just lay there like a ******* corpse do something try different stuff but dont avoid it be honest about it i mean im a female and i love sex

Or, yanno, not. Understanding and accommodating sex drives, perhaps, but sex itself isn't.