By Anonymous - 24/09/2012 19:09 - United States
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Sorry op your boyfriend hung you out to dry before even getting your side of the story. You might want to consider letting him go if he's so quick to jump to conclusions.
Oh like there's a million okay excuses for a hickey and he's the only guy in the world that would jump to that. You shouldn't just accuse someone, but I'm assuming they're younger, and not all people have a handle on their jealousy when they're young. Shouldn't dump someone you supposedly care about because they think you cheated without spending the time to show/explain you didn't =/.
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Guys can be the same way. People only cheat when there's a problem with the relationship they're in. And everybody fantasizes about other people when in a relationship unless you act on those feelings there's nothing wrong with it
Cheating should never be the first thing on your mind if you see a hickey on your boy/girlfriend. If you can't trust your partner enough to think that there must be a reason for things like this other than cheating, you shouldn't have a partner. A relationship is not about making sure your partner is not cheating, it's about trusting your partner and give him/her the benefit of the doubt!
46, you need to get out of that fantasy land you live in. Some people are douche bags who don't give a fuck about anything but getting laid. Doesn't matter the gender, sexuality, race, or ethnicity. Scum bags come in all different packages. People can have the perfect relationship and they will still cheat.
I'm not saying that every situation is the same when it comes to cheating. In my experience people only cheat when there's something wrong. There can be situations where someone in the relationship only cares about getting laid. I didn't mean to make it seem like that was the be all end all. And again not saying everyone fantasizes about others outside their relationship but its not cheating if you do and it's normal. Every person is unique so it's up to each person what they do and why they do it. But thank you for all jumping down my throat
63 - Yes, which is why I included the part about assuming they are young. Controlling jealousy isn't something you just are naturally good at for a lot of people. You can love and trust someone but still want to kick the crap out of someone that flirts with your significant other. If they're teens or even early 20s, it's understandable and it's something they need to talk about so he can learn to not jump to those conclusions right away. Dumping him without discussion would just reinforce it. If they're in their 30s or something, then the guy needs to grow up and act like a man who has the maturity to deal with all the bumps in the road during a relationship.
5- you look like someone I know named Revae. But it was that same pic, but with a blue tongue. Are you? Also, I wouldn't of thought cats could give a hickey. Since you need the lips and cheeks to create the suction. (yes they suckle when they are young, but that's something that goes in their mouth. So unless there's a skin fla... Oh wow, I'm going to stop before I gross myself out.)
There is always a story behind everything... Unfortunately your proof lies with that child.... Good luck!! =D