By wow - 15/04/2013 18:36 - Russian Federation - Saint Petersburg
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Is there any one left out there who isn't a scum bag? What ever happened to having values?
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I'm a faithful 18 year old girl who would rather wear t-shirts rather than slutty clothing and would rather catch frogs and lizards outside or paint rather than party or do drugs/drink :) I've been taken advantage of in the past but my boyfriend of a year treats me respectfully :) It's hard to find people with good morals but we're out there :)
The problem is, all us "good" guys have been friend zoned. All the girls saying we are all scum bags, are the main ones to friend zone the good guys. You girls go after the bad boys and when they end up treating you poorly, you come running to the good guy to cry on. Needless to say, being the good guy means being there for them no matter how overlooked we can be.
68 - cry me a river loser. I'm sorry to mean, but girls get friendzoned too. Usually when someone gets friendzoned it's because they are incompatible. You can't force someone to be attracted too you. Usually girls and guys go after attractive people. Said people are usually jerks b/c they know they look good. To be completely honest, I have friendzoned many people and I have been friendzoned by others in return. It's like the circle of life. Get over it and stop comforting yourself by making yourself out to be a victim.
@58, I didn't know Taylor Swift frequented the FML comment section. Cool! Slut-shaming is immature, as is the mindset that you're better than other girls just because you prefer to wear t-shirts rather than what you deem to be "slutty" clothing. Not sure why girls get stuck in that "I'm not like other girls" thing. It's that holier-than-thou attitude that's gonna make people not like you, not the fact that you prefer sneakers to high heels.
#58 - You're pathetically insecure. Work on improving your self esteem rather than looking for validation from strangers on the internet. Also, you're extremely naive if you expected someone to reply to your comment with "wow Lizardgirl, you shining beam of morality, class and excellence. Clearly all other women should strive to be just like you." Whether or not you realize it, you obviously feel very threatened by women who wear revealing clothing or who lead a lifestyle that is different from yours otherwise you wouldn't try to put them down in a lame attempt to make you feel better about yourself. Also, grow up.
I think it's a little far to call someone "pathetically insecure". Maybe instead of basically "shaming" her for "shaming" sluts, you can just ignore her comment, or take it at face value. She was saying she's not into all the partying, etc because that's what the comments are about. Deal with it.
If you're looking for people who aren't scum bags, FML is not the site for you sweetie. On a more serious note, I know a couple that's married, both have cheated on the other, and are still together for who the fuck knows what reason. People suck, through and through, but there are some good people out there.
Now that's brutal. Sorry Op, no one deserves to hear that their trusted partner. ;p
Well...on the bright side you're now free to go find that cute colleague you work with. With any luck there will be some drinks, some inter office sex, a shotgun wedding, and a life of bliss!