OP needs to call bullshit on that bitch. Ain't nobody have time for such fuckery. Sorry you got cheated on OP, time will heal your pain, it'd be in your best interest to move on. From personal experience I can tell you 'Once a cheater always a cheater' is a true saying.

Agreed 27. and I learned that the hard way with my last ex.

I mean, as least he learned that she is a cheater now rather than later, when he is more emotionally invested in the relationship. Not saying he isn't invested now, but it would sting a lot more if they had been together for years.

sad part is they are few an far between

Really you should never hang around when someone cheats. They do it once, chances are it'll happen again.

#11 She could have been drunk or maybe they got in a fight (not a good reason but maybe she thought they were done) and we don't know what "cheating" entailed (kissing, making out or full out sex) there is not enough context as to what happened. But its OP relationship and from my experience most people don't listen if they aren't ready. It's up to OP to decide how to proceed.

13, regardless if my partner kissed or ****** another, cheating is cheating. And if my partner went off immediately after an 'unclear fight' and made out or slept with another woman, my respect STILL would go down. And I would not consider him worthy to be in a relationship with me. So, it doesn't matter, there are no excuses for cheating. OP still deserves better.

Most of the time cheating is sex, not just kissing. And any cheating is enough context to break up. I've been cheated on in a Poly-relationship, where my only rule was tell me that you are going to hook up with someone, and she was still going after people sneakily. For me any cheating is an instant break up.

Well a "poly" relationship should have been your first flag that she wasn't gonna be loyal.

#31, poly relationships can be very loving and loyal relationships. I would never be in one, because I get jealous way too easily. But when you are literally telling your partner "You can hook up with other people as long as you tell me first" and yet they go behind your back anyways, they are a shitty person just like any other cheater.

OP wouldn't say she was cheating if they weren't...

yeah ^ and I don't think they would have referred to the chick as their girlfriend, either haha

people seriously do that?! that's just wild, man :O drive away and park it like it's hot, too.

Cheaters aren't worth the trouble or the pain but at least it sounds like she actively decided to tell you.