So the OP's ex is a shovel?

15 - Presumably it would have been mentioned.

15 - That is an case I didn't even think about.

15- Maybe I'm the only one but I don't consider rape as a loss of virginity. I believe that only when you consented to having sex have you truly lost your virginity.

From what I know, it's when the penis goes in.

Yes, penetration is loss of virginity. However, I believe it is implicit that no assault occurred in this FML, so why don't we go ahead and ignore 15's unnecessary comment.

36- If the penis belonged to some ****** who forced it into a woman then the woman should not give him the pleasure of having her virginity. In my religion women who are raped are not considered to have lost their virginity and can still live in chastity until they are married.

Continuing on my comment, I think that it is important for a rape victim not to feel dirty or impure afterwards because it wasn't their fault. By keeping their virginity rightfully because they did not give consent it allows them to hold onto their dignity and self respect.

These comments are starting to get a little too feisty.. :/

Dump her ass. Sorry op that really sucks. I freaking hate cheaters

I agree with 15 considering the fact it was against ones will some of us know the feeling of what it's like ='(

Way to think outside the box #15! Not sure why everyone is bashing you because it is possible, however, not likely in this particular situation.

You know, you can't just chose that you "didn't lose your virginity" when you were raped. If the hymen broke, the virginity is gone.

112- Well aren't you just the ignorant one. Oh whoops, I fell off my horse and I ripped my hymen. Guess I'm a ****.

Exactly!^ you can break your hymen by horseriding, on a bike, by other sexual acts eg fingering, it's not just from sex :)

112- hymens don't actually even break. :) please know what you are talking about before you talk about it!

I think it's better to say "I hope she lost you as well dude" cause i wouldn't consider her leaving a loss.

good point actually. What you said.

11 I think the loss of OP's girlfriend could even be considered a beneficial life lesson. :)

Word...digo mata la puta.

55- yes, and trust issues and depression are an added bonus. cheating can have alot of ramifications, and not just on the cheater. you obviously dont know what its like.

The amount of people who cheat while in a relationship is startling. I swear some are starting to think its okay to cheat

As opposed to those who cheat when they're single? And of course some people think it's ok to cheat, you're only learning this now?

and the ex girlfriend deserves a falcon punch to the vag just saying

Yup that bitch is going to get herpes or it's going to burn when she pees!!

Herpes or burn when she pees? How about an ice cold serving of both?

Her asshole will grow tastebuds, and she will become the AT&T of people. Jesus told me.

What Pleo said, times two.

What if she just wanted to be good at it for him? Somehow I doubt if but it could happen.

then she would still be a cheater. there are no excuses fot having sex with somebody else.

#27 She wouldn't necessarily have to be good in the first place since they both were virgins. They would make their first time meaningful and continue to learn together. As a faithful couple.

I might just possibly mean that OP's girlfriend used a tampon for the first time. Should have listened to grandma :3

#27- Then she is not only a cheater, but an idiot as well!

In what way exactly does using a tampon cause you to lose your virginity?

73 - There was a FML about it awhile back about this. You should check it out ;)

#73 it's called sarcasm...

Well atleast OP got to save his virginity for someone who really matters. I wish I saved mine..

******

And hopefully she gained a bad reputation. Cheaters never prosper.

"Cheaters never win." Or "Winners never Cheat."

Or in the Soviet Russia you can never win a cheater.