Testing the waters

By Anonymousss95 - 10/12/2011 12:03 - Sweden

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Today, I lost my virginity. Afterwards, he told me that he was only doing this because he wanted to know if he still truly loves his girlfriend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 51 709
You deserved it 13 391

Same thing different taste

Top comments

magicrock 8

Well does he really love her now?

ohdearkristen 0

Damn.. sorry OP :( that really sucks. He's a dick

Comments

magicrock 8

Well does he really love her now?

Kick him in the balls and make it so hard he will never have sex again

It's crazy bitches like you that make it hard to find ACTUAL good partners ;)

n_epic_fail 14

No worries, the first time around always sucks (no pun intended).

If he's having sex with another female without stopping himself beforehand. No he doesn't. Im sorry for your loss OP :( 45: the first time doesn't have to be bad. The man I was with the first time was very kind about it. I dont regret it

DarkMoon159 5

wow im surprised you even managed to get laid fatty^

80 - HAHAHA I'M A DICK FOR LAUGHING AT THE JOKE BUT HAHA

DarkMoon159 5

86- Na im a dick for even POSTING that shit up. But in the end people, you gotta admit that that was funny.

xoconnie 8
jwade11 12

73----agree!!! You can't truly love someone and sleep with someone else. I don't care if you consider it "just sex", if you can touch another person's body other than the one you say you love then it's not the deepest, most pure love.

MothaaTruckaa13 2

Well did you know he had a girlfriend beforehand? I wouldn't give it up like that unless i just didn't care.

I really think OP is a stage 5 clinger...

"You can't truly love someone and sleep with someone else." Some people can. Open relationships, polyamory, that sort of things. But I have the feeling that that guy has a monogamous relationship, which means that he screwed his girlfriend and OP.

198 Don't worry, some of us aren't teenagers and realise that relationships and emotions don't come in one size fits all. I wouldn't pay any attention to the voting on your comment, its indicative of a lack of maturity and life experience of users on this site.

me_gusta_eso 1

Yeah you don't have to add the apostrophe and the s.

62- did it turn out it wasnt your uncle at all?

Lol I know. I true to edit the darn thing but my freaking autocorrect on the iPhone screwed me over haha

ohdearkristen 0

Damn.. sorry OP :( that really sucks. He's a dick

To me it sounds like you weren't together very long, if the whole thing was just an "experiment" and if that's the case, she deserves it D: girls give it up too easy these days.... to everyone except me.

I agree. You shouldn't give it up so easily. You should know you love each other before letting him take your V card. Abstinence FTW!

Did you mention to him you lied about being a virgin, and actually were only that tight because know one would touch you because of the whole aids thing?

Rocker_chic_86 2

There's a double standard right there. Girls give it up too easily? And guys are taking full advantage of it. Girls get judged and guys get congratulated. Unless they're having sex with another guy, they were involved in it. OP- Sorry to hear that. It is a big deal to lose your virginity and if he didn't realize what a big thing it is, he doesn't deserve you. I choose to believe that you didn't know he had a girlfriend.

189, That makes no sense. Is there anyone who wouldn't judge a guy who had sex for the first time and ended up regretting it? That's kind of the issue here, not the fact that they actually slept with someone. Surely by comment 189 you noticed an abundance of "what an asshole" comments, yes?

Rocker_chic_86 2

#207. That was in response to what #40 said about how girls give it up too easily.

Well, hope it wasn't too bad, at least. If there's a discreet way of letting the girlfriend know, maybe you'll get some from her while she sees if she still loves him.

Badab1ng 5

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Both of your comments are overfilled with stupidity.

marpay 11

1- It's called a hymen. 2- Most of the time it's broken prior to sex because of all the activities that girls do. 3- I doubt that if they were masturbating that they would be worried about it getting in the way.

The ratio of annoying horny posters to posters with self control amazes me..

jorrjorr 0

You really don't have to be ignorant about stuff like this!!!!

ChronicBluntz420 7

Look at the bright side you finally had sex!

rbr0wn 3

And will now probably have emotional problems because the first guy she slept with did it on a whim, not because he cared about her. Sex is an emotional thing, so her "finally having sex" is completely irrelevant.

@64 - you don't have to have sex with someone you care about for your first time. Casual sex is perfectly fine for first time if that's how you want it. I'm gonna say the differing expectations are what could **** one up big time. That's one heck of an emotional betrayal.

64 - if it was so emotional for her, she should have invested enough time to have an idea of her partner's motives.

me_gusta_eso 1
KissMyFurryAss 10

Your comment and your picture don't mix.

What does a pro pic and a comment have to do with each other?

JadeWalker 14

the comment was a pun and his/ her pic is a meme, makes total sense