By blazer - 30/06/2009 00:40 - United States

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Today, my daughter asked me what is the youngest age at which you should start having sex. Being a good mom, I said that she shouldn't have sex until after she's been married. My daughter then said, "Oh... shoot," and walked away. My daughter is twelve. FML
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likeanoutlawbayb 0

you should keep a better eye on what your twelve year is doing and who she's hanging around with

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DorkusD 0

@164 - Losing your virginity is a consequence of having sex? Shit I wish I had have known that sooner!!!

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christopherlove 0

YDI for giving your daughter such terrible advice. BTW, what's her number?

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Serafie 0

You should sit down and talk with her about sex. You'll get it out of the way sooner and she'll be better off with the knowledge. Just because she said that doesn't necessarily mean she /had/ sex. She could have been wanting to have sex earlier, but she wants to do what you say as well. If she reacted like that, it means she'll follow your advice.

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Scotticus117 11

Wow well yeah i agree with #95 she probably just once to and she's probably like shoot I have to wait that long? I'm 16 and my policy is I probably won't do it til I'm 18. That's just me though. By all means protect your daughter and you should probably have a talk with her.

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eatmydust 0

ok telling your daughter to wait until marriage isn't bad advice. at 15, im planning on waiting until marriage, and not because thats what my mom says. im just smart enough to realize the benefits of waiting. i dont want to get pregnant, or an STD. The way i see it, if im emotionally mature enough for marriage, then i know ill be ready for sex as well.

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Dalarsco 0

@257: And that works for you. Making it a one size fits all for everyone isn't fair. Especially since marriage is mostly an economic institution anyway. There are plenty of long lasting couples that just don't get married. Plus, if the couple isn't sexually compatible then the marriage won't work. Do you really want to wait until your honeymoon to find out that the man you think you love wants you to dress up as a clown and spank him while he calls you mommy?

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ISeeStarsBitchh 0

I think that any chick who willingly loses their virginity smoke and/or drinks before the age of 17 is pretty much a ***** :/ Nothin personal, but if this describes you.....You should just die. Im 15 and about 30 of my friends that I have known since 5th grade have all had sex, been drunk, and smoked pot. Its like I dont know them anymore, Needless to say Im not their friend anymore. Ive lost my faith in humanity because of them D: #257, I pretty much agree. Im waiting till im mentally and psychically prepared. (But also because my mom asked me to wait.) I dont want to become ugly (on the inside, not the outside) like my ex friends and sisters.....

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Bullshet 0

There's absolutly nothing wrong with waiting until marriage. Sexual incompatibility can usually be solved with compromise anyway, which is what any mature relationship should consist of. If you can't do that, you shouldn't have got married in the first place. OP: However, your daughter might not wait that long. You better make sure you talk about what sex can lead to. If she still wants to, at least make sure she's safe and that you're approachable to her. You only do her a diservice if you keep her in the dark.

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themixedt4pe 0

Nothing personal, but go die? That doesn't even describe me and I'm offended!

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SomeonePosting 0

I don't think you can combine "nothing personal" and "omg die/suffer/whatever" in the same sentence without recanting all attempts at being serious... But since you are trying to be serious, that also doesn't describe me, or any people I know, and I'm offended!

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niagara001001001 0

Yup, and by this time next year, you'll probably have lost you're virginity. Because its all around you. Day in and Day out.

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beachfool17 0

wow are you serious?? your 15 every 15 yearold thinks that and its called public school get over it wait a couple of years and youll be drinking or trying it calm your ass down and lighten up its called highschool

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boatkicker 4

That doesnt mean its a fake. Stuff like this happens all the time. I had this same thing happen to me a few weeks ago only it was my little sister, not my daughter. only i reacted differently than this mom.

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niagara001001001 0

I know the one you mean...but this is not fake, the rules here states ``Don't post any comments which comment on the validity of an FML (screaming "Fake" for example), or even on whether the FML deserves to be on the website. Don't ruin the website for the other users.`` Please try and be positive, this site is a place for people to share about their day. Don`t judge on it, its not you.

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jnic 0

wow, congrats for being the most judgmental bitch in this entire board of comments. just because everyone is growing up faster than you doesn't mean you have the right to hold it against them. why does sex HAVE to be a bad thing? what if they have sex with someone they've been with for a year or two, to strengthen their bond and express their love? jesus, so much shame and negativity you got there.

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boatkicker 4

Doesn't describe me. I'm highly offended anyways. Also, please look up the definition of *****. It has nothing to do with smoking and/or drinking. You see smoking, drinking, and having sex as a problem. Instead try to see it as a mistake. People make mistakes. Everyone does. Even you. You said some people you've known since 5th grade? You're fifteen now. That's what? A freshman in high school? People change over time. Especially between teh ages of 11 and 17. After that change is mroe gradual but somewhere between those years are when we all go through puberty and that changes personalities just as much as it changes you physically. Of course you dont know them anymoe, if you pushed them out of your life as soon as you heard teh made a mistake.

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damnstopmessinup 0

hahahah!!! a 15 year old calls people names and you're all offended?? hahahaha!! and how old are all of you? 12?

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PrettyVal 0

Yeah you really can't say "nothing personal" and then follow it with "just go die" and expect people to not be offended. You're 15, you don't know that much. Not everyone who has sex before 17 is a *****, and this is from someone who really DOES wish people would wait that long.

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boatkicker 4

not offended on a personal level, but offended by the ignorance behind the statement.

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Alfredo_fml 0

I'm twelve and I already learned about the consequences at school (I'm a guy..)

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DarthJeff 0

Unrealistic. I guess you'll have a teen mom on your hands.

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fortywhacks 0

YDI for leaving your morals in the 1950s.

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