By Anonymous - 29/04/2011 12:53 - New Zealand
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I'd be more than annoyed with him. first off if he thinks it's a good idea to spend a week with his ex then he has some brain malfunction and as for him dumping you op I would have dumped him for telling me he was spending the week with his ex now if they are just friends and they have always kept in contact from the get go of your 2 relationship fine nothing wrong with talking and being friends the problem is spending a week with her alone so it not all about trusting him it's rude and disrespectfull to you unless you and the girl are all friends and hang out together so op I would not count him as a loss more of you wasted 2 years of your time with an asshole, you could always get even and date one of his buddies. or just move on and find a guy worth being with
so hes still in contact and close with his ex, maybe they work together and need to go on a business trip or maybe he just wanted to organise a trip for them all to take together and she just couldnt make it because she put work first, who knows? why are we judging this guy without knowing the situation? oh right, because we are on fml, and thats what you people tend to do. i think id do the exact same thing he did, ditch your ass because youre incapable of trusting me with my friends and because i can foresee your insecurities being a major problem every single time something comes up that you dont like. ydi. sure, he may have had bad intentions, but i guess youll never find out now will you?
Then kick his ass, instead of being annoyed with him. I would have dumped his ass if my boyfriend ever even thought of doing that.
I'm one of the least jealous girls I know, but I would still be uncomfortable with him spending a week with any girl, especially an ex of his if I'm not there. Even if logically, I know that he won't cheat on me, it would still be a very unpleasant week for me, and might cause relationship issues in the future. Also, you have to wonder, why was OP's boyfriend so insistent on going somewhere to spend a week with his ex, and not inviting OP along. There might be more to the story, but from what we know, OP is totally in the right.
I'm surprised you even care, I'd have broken up if my gf insisted to have a week with an ex... no fml imo
Don't feel bad OP. At least he saved you the embarrassment of possibly getting cheated on. Seriously, what kind of guy would want to hang out with their ex and NOT expect their current partner to be annoyed or slightly jealous?
Me. I trust my partners completely and I would expect them to trust me the same; if I want to hang out with a current friend who happens to have been an ex at one point in time, and you don't trust me enough to do that, I'm not sure how long the relationship would last.