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By Anonymous - / Thursday 16 January 2014 17:57 / United States
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Must not hurt too bad considering you don't have balls to discipline and discuss your daughter's actions with her. She's 7! Come on, man! Grow a pair.

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Actually that's not necessarily true. If the bruises SHOW. Seriously though they won't take the kid away unless you're beating her not spanking her.

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Yea I agree. This is just a poor discipline issue. If I ever even ATTEMPTED that, Id get my butt whooped. She's your daughter, if you let her get away with that kind of behavior, she'll grow up thinking she can do whatever. Hate to tell you OP, but this is really just poor parenting. Show her that it's bad, don't just let it happen.

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#72. A couple years ago my friend spanked his kid and the kid told his school. school called CYS and he had to go to court numerous times over the period of a year. He almost lost his kid because of it. so yes, it can happen even if there are no marks.

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#72 CPS in the good ol' U S of A will take kids for just about any form of physical discipline. I know they serve a purpose and not all CPS agents are bad. However, In my experience they're useless overbearing egomaniacs that should have been whooped a whole hell of a lot more as kids.

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129 spanking is a good answer to punishment if done right. There is not much reason to argue. People are entitled to their own opinions. However you explain to the kid why you are doing this, exactly how many they are getting, and that you really don't enjoy it. Trust me it works. It's not abuse. It's called discipline.

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First of all, discipline is about consequences, which doesn't have to mean spanking. But I agree, she needs her ass beat.

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discipline/punishment doesn't have to involve a spanking but in this situation is say the punishment would fit the crime.

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Amen, couldn't agree more with that statement.. Especially since I have Five daughters myself.. My life would be upside down without it...

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I think its CPS..Might be different where you are tho. But eff that, I would have never done that to my dad or anyone in fear of an ass whooping.. I personally don't think a JUSTIFIED spanking is anyone's business, ESPECIALLY CPS's. I am sure if someone from CPS walked into that house and got nailed in the junk the first thing they would think is that the parents needs to discipline their kid.. But they would rather take the kid away or threaten it If you spank a diaper and it doesn't even hurt

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I don't know why so many people down voted your comment, you are correct. I am a foster parent and I know that there are kids that have been removed because of spanking. I think it's ridiculous. My parents spanked me but I always knew I deserved what I got. It's a shame that no one feels safe spanking their kids anymore. With that being said, my foster children are very well behaved, although they did not come to me that way. I have used behavioral charts and reward systems to encourage good beh

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What about paying a kid at school to bully her? Then tell her that the kid will stop if she stops sacking you..

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once I bit my mom when I was a toddler. she bit me back and calmly said "it hurts, doesn't it?" I never bit someone again.

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127, I think she meant for OP to use a sports cup to protect himself. As for spanking, or "hitting", I was spanked as a child and did not fear my elders because of it, as were many people. Good luck to you one day if you have a child that realizes they will never see a belt, because until I got spanked I thought I could do whatever I wanted. I learned through punishment.

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The belt?! if I did that to my dad or my brother I'd have been whooped so bad I would have needed to eat with a straw for a few months.

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No. Installing physical discipline to a child will teach that child to never do it again. Since the child doesn't want to get punished again, he/she will avoid committing the wrong actions. Grounding them won't do shit. I know what it feels like to get beat. Because I don't want to get beat again, I don't make the same mistake again.

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131, I was spanked as a child and I learned not to beat up people smaller than me, instead to respect people, especially authority. Grow a pair and learn the difference between discipline and abuse. Please don't reproduce so your brat kid can wreck havoc on society because we fail to get on their level and talk it out and understand them.

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Well, there are other possible punishments. Quick list: Fill a cup with cold water and pour it down her back. Call her "Tom" in front of her friends. Trick her into watching screamers and playing the scary maze game. Draw mustaches on her dolls. Stick gum in her hair at. Cut off a chunk of her hair. Tumbleweed her to the brink of tears. Crush her chips so that there's only crumbs. Do like a wet willie, but with peanut butter. Secretly give her nicotine patches while she sleeps until yo

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Okay thunderstruck how old are you first of all, secondly yore parents were the kind that put you in a chair to "think about what you did" weren't they? My daddy spanked me, tripled my chore load, took away everything except my textbooks and bed, and one summer sent me to live with my aunt on their cattle ranch to punish ne. I never once took it as meaning that he was bigger and I was smaller so I could repeat that behavior. I took it as the punishment it was, and learned not to do wha

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Hide around a corner waiting for her and when she comes around it scream and punch her in the gut, she'll learn.

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at the same time that spanking is useful, when it is done too often the child then knows "okay I can break the rules then they'll hit me once and that's that!" so then the punishment needs to become long term like grounding.

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Thumbed down? And a rant directed at me? Save your breath, buddy, that was a joke. Very disappointed in you mortals. I bet if I was Pedrix you people would have thought that was the greatest comment ever. tsk tsk tsk. Next time, I'll leave you Neanderthals a footnote when my comment was meant to be humorous so you know I wasn't serious. P.S. This comment was intended to be humorous.

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You need to learn to discipline her. If you don't, she's gonna continue to do that to you and she'll think it's ok to do that to other people.

Must not hurt too bad considering you don't have balls to discipline and discuss your daughter's actions with her. She's 7! Come on, man! Grow a pair.

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She doesn't want him to bring another child into the world. She is the alpha now. There must be no other siblings to step in her way.

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#202- No I do not. I personally believe that striking a child is not acceptable. I understand that everyone has their own ways of discipline and I can accept that. When I do have children of my own I will follow my views and would hope that others can appreciate that.

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I disagree, It depends on who the child is. Different children respond (or rather don't) to different things. My parents would smack me when I did something very bad, and would often count "1,2....3" if I was doing something continuously naughty. They never had to count to three again after I'd learned what would happen, the first time. My point is, physical discipline can definitely have its uses depending on the child. I know for a fact that it certainly helped me, and I can tell y

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27, If I was still a young child, and I did that, I'd get a whoopin'. The thing is now people are too scared of pippin' their kid, which is needed to be done. Not in an abusive way but to teach them right from wrong.

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Hitting and spanking are COMPLETELY different. I was spanked as a kid and im wouldn't ever even think of doing that. Children today are out of control and NEED to be spanked. It's ridiculous how bad the spoiled brats have gotten now.

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Children don't quite understand right from wrong. Smacking them on the bottom enforces that. I don't encourage smacking across the face or anything like that, but I was smacked on the bottom as a child and I'm perfectly fine because of it.

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I was disciplined with both if the alternative punishment was not effective and I continued with the naughty behaviour then I was punished physically My sister and I turned out perfectly as did my cousins on my mothers side (I don't really know family on my fathers side so I can't comment) sometimes physical punishment is needed when the alternatives don't work

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#65 how the hell does spanking her make her believe her actions are acceptable and lead her to continue hitting? That makes no sense at all. Whatever you're reading from wasn't around back then, while spanking was and people came out perfectly fine.

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I understand what you are saying, sir. I respect and value what you have said. However, sometimes explaining just isn't enough. I am not saying beat the child down, but discipline should work for each child differently. I was spanked a few times growing up and the threat of a spanking was enough to stop certain behaviors. But my mother also took the time to explain to me what went on and why she punished me. Some children need spankings, some children need words. It depends on what works for t

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So if spanking is so terrible and harmful to a child's mental health, them how come our grandparents came out so well? Take a look at your next generation.. I have had a 5 year old cuss me out, seen 10 year olds make out, and kids throw a tantrum and lash out when they don't get the toy they want. You can coddle and protect your little angel all you want, they're just going to do it again because they didn't get in trouble in the first place therefore not understanding it was bad. I see any of m

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I think that each generation has its own problem. Every generation thinks the next generation is filled with lazy brats. It is mostly because different values, improved technology, and a change in the way society works. While they were hardworking, saying our generation or the next is spoiled and lazy is not correct in all ways. We don't have the same amount of job opportunities, things cost more, etc. I know my grandmother was a racist, the called my friends the N-word and made me feel like a

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The reason why our grandparents acted different was because they were born and raised in a different era. Back then, older men married teenage minors, a woman wasn't to step outside the kitchen, and follow her husband's lead, and children were humiliated in front of classrooms. We have come a long way from that era, and yes, chivalry does still exist. Some of the smartest people I know were never physically punished, and their manners are impeccable. What is missing in today's generation is a p

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65 honestly you are right when you say parents are more informed, but on things like car seats, and such. I just want to point out each kid responds to punishment in their own way. When I was a kid I enjoyed to be by myself, so timeout never worked. A spanking worked brilliantly. I knew what I did was wrong, because my parents explained that to me. I didn't do it again. Was I emotionally confused? Absolutely not. Now if my kids were to respond better to timeout ok, but I think spanking has its t

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If you are learning all of your parenting skills from a book, that's a problem. And I don't agree with your statement. I've done stupid shit when I was younger, and my dad would spank me in the butt, and guess, what, not only did I learn me lesson and never did it again, I still love my dad and respect him. I'm actually glad he spanked me, because it made me a better person, and not a complete dumb ass like most of my new generation who were "grounded" for a couple of days. A spanking

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@65 spanking a child can never be an outdated form of discipline. it has been used for thousands of years. What makes todays era of children any different from many eras ago? A child back then is a child today mentally and physically.

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A child should never NEED to be hit, and your an idiot if you think that every child nowadays is a spoiled brat, that is a serious generalization that doesn't even make sense. PS. Do you even have a kid, cause if you don't, why are you talking

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I have a question, where you spanked cause that would explain sooo much, why the fuck are you being rude to this guy who obviously put some real thought and time into his response.

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I'm not saying that spanking is the only form of discipline, I was grounded and sent to timeout and such. Yeah sometimes those worked just as effectively, but other times I needed that spanking when the grounding and stern talking to wasn't enough. I in no way feared my parents or ever lost respect for them, I understood why it happened so I simply didn't do it again. I want to get something straight, spanking is NOT hitting. Hitting a child across the face is abuse. Spanking a child on the bu

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Also, #209 you want to call me an idiot and cuss at me because I'M the one being rude?? I am simply expressing my opinions and why I have such opinions. Nobody likes the guy who shows up mid conversation and tells everyone how stupid they are, so just go leave. thankyouverymuch.

So you're just going to let her do this? Why not be a man and punish her when she does it. The more you let her the more she'll think its ok. Discipline is not extinct.

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You obviously don't understand the lessons that are learned when you discipline. Two wrongs don't make a right.

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