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By  qdawg06  |  23

I'm trying so hard to see the positive in this but it is pretty damn hard....


I understand his pain. My first time, I didn't realize that my friend payed for a girl to have sex with me until a few days after. I was younger, but that made me feel inadequate and wonder if I was so bad that girls would only like me with money. I got over it and found out it wasn't true, but for all of those "doesn't matter had sex people," sex isn't always everything. For most, there are always complex emotions associated with being that intimate.

  dawnimus  |  21

Statistics show that you're *unlikely* to end up with your first, not that you won't. I'm about to marry mine, 7 years on. Obviously I don't think OP should stay with this guy though (or get back with him, ever), he sounds like a total butthole.

By  jesterinperil  |  28

That's just wrong of them not to tell you, especially if you wanted your first time to be special. You only get one first time, unfortunately, but make the best of it OP. You'll find someone much better than your ex, they sound absolutely foul.

  KaidensCrow  |  18

I met my husband when I was 13 and we've been best friends since, but we waited until I was 18. a full 2 years after we started dating because I was still a virgin and he wasn't. his first time was with a psycho b*tch who ended up stabbing and slicing him up. so he definitely wanted my first time to be much better. I'm so sorry op that's horrible. don't worry, you will find the right person. the first time with your true love will be even better then that breakup sex

  devildog562  |  33

This was the first question in my head . I'm assuming she probably has had sex before and didn't think of it anything except a good way to end things on good terms .

By  chuchusheep  |  19

my first time i was blacked out drunk and i dont remember a thing. and i so wanted it to be with someone special. that is sad yours had to end that way...just remember that there is someone out there who will be so amazing they will leave your first time in the dust.