wow....n did u think about asking her if she was with someone before you went out with her?

Well, theoretically 'decent' girls let a guy know that they are seeing someone, and thus cannot go out with the guy in question.

Did she realise it was a date? I mean, when you take someone out to dinner....

Yeeeah. It seems like something that would have come up in the conversation at some point.

YDI for waiting so long... you snooze, you lose. :S

wow.. you sound like an loser... You're in love with a girl for 8 years? and you never even talked to her enough to find out that she had a bf? You deserve it for being so pathetic.

I agree with 86 and 96. I mean, 8 years? Come on, get a move on! Either A) Get some balls (confidence)! or B) Stop living in the past!

#96 wins. I think what you meant to say is that you've been stalking her and having an imaginary relationship with her since you were 14.

Kinda sounds like she was using him to get free food out of him... or she just really didn't realize dinner and a movie were typical date settings.

hey 2- your a fucking faggot pufter cunt

There are also drinks that are non-alcoholic...don't be so ignorant. OP, I don't think you deserved it. Being in a relationship she shouldn't meet another guy for dinner, a movie and drinks...because that's really like a date. Not what you should do when in a relationship...unless it's with your S/O. You probably deserve better anyway...I mean what if she was dating you and suddenly started going on dates with other men...

You are very angry. And a few won't do much to impair you. TV lies.

LOL You never know... he may have only had one or two spread over a couple hours and was fine to drive. I'd like to think the OP didn't get completely shitfaced during this big dream-date.

Dude, chill. Lots of people go out for some drinks... and it's not ALWAYS alcoholic.

your a fucking cocksucking piece of cowshit I wish cancer upon you and your family.

Dude, that's normal. Unless you both explicitly agree that you're in a committed monogamous relationship, you're both free agents. Go date other people.

xhannifax, what country are you from because I believe it's only you Americans that drive just about EVERYWERE

I have to agree with this. I know it seems like this girl is the one girl for you, but it really sounds like this is just a crush. If this was your first date with her, you really really don't know her that well. Go out and date some broads. Give them a chance. You'll see they have qualities you've missed since you've been doting over this girl. in essence, YDI.

I agreee with this. Also, I know you think it's cute and all to be vague probably but clarifying that something is in fact a date before you get your feelings up isn't out of place in this day and age.

Totally agree with you. It sounds like you're still stuck at 14 to me. I mean, it also sounds like you haven't even told this girl how you feel, which is a YDI in itself, but you don't know enough about her to know she has a BF? Major fail man.

Fish in the "see", lol.

Sorry about that. Haha. This is also my first comment people have agreed with, I think. 'o.O

Learning to read goes a long way. Illiterate redneck.

Please report to your local hospital for chemical castration. The gene pool would be much better off without you.