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Dishonest guys are cheats, liars, and douches. Honest guys are jerks, inconsiderate, and asses. Is there a non-negative middle ground?

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honest and dishonest are not binary when it comes to people's personalities. It's a spectrum with countless other factors thrown in

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I guess a non-negative middle ground would be an honest person who actually loves you and isn't just using you for sex?

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But I suppose when you fish for compliments like OP, you usually catch a person unawares and they can blurt out something stupid by accident.

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If you're in a relationship and neither have said the I love you to each other then I don't think it would be smart to ask.. You're putting him on the spot. If he loves you eventually he'll say it without feeling pressured to do so. Also he might lie just to not hurt your feelings..which was not the case here.

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Not just rude but incredibly insensitive too. OP, if this continues and you still feel unappreciated then leave him and find someone who does.

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I agree, 20, mine just raises his head from time to time and waits to be acknowledged, but he never actually speaks.

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Welshite, please! He was merely suggesting that OP's boyfriend was giving into his primal side, honesty being him following his urge to reproduce.

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Your name fits your comment like a hand in a glove. Also, I agree. Men tend not to know what's on our own mind half of the time, why do so many women expect us to just know what's on theirs? Communication is key.

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100% agree. Starting off a conversation the right way sets the tone and leaves no room for misunderstandings or unintended insensitivity.

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Exactly! I'm a woman, and I can't stand when other women fish for compliments. "Do you love me?" Such a dumb question. As soon as I saw that, I hit YDI. When people fish, I sometimes tell them the exact opposite of what they wanted to hear to fuck with them.

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