By Sexless4Life - United States - Cincinnati
  Today, I realized that it's been well over a month since my boyfriend has even tried to have sex with me. The last time was our first time, and because he couldn't keep it up, he's too humiliated to accept any of my advances. FML
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  knoxxx  |  22

And by talking we don't mean simply telling him that you're upset that you haven't had sex in month, that would probably just make him feel more pressure to preform. Being comfortable enough to talk about the sex you're having, both the good and the bad parts, makes a huge difference.

  depocadoll  |  15

Practice makes perfect! Don't give up, make sure he knows its not a big deal to you when an attempt fails, but it is important to you that keep trying. (Assuming you guys are an appropriate age..) Sex should be fun, and being nervous is natural, but don't let it stop your relationship from blossoming.

By  nyrangersfan9  |  13

Don't confront him angrily; that'll just embarrass him. Do it nicely. And "help him out", if you know what I mean. And ask if he should see a doc about erectile distinction.

  lissa_jade  |  22

not sure that would work out in her favor... if it was their first time, he was probably nervous and it obviously didn't go well. she probably shouldn't jump right to "hunny, I love you, but do you have erectile dysfunction?" once he finally feels comfortable talking about it..

By  cristy91  |  33

Nearly every guy experiences it in their life. I can see why it would be embarrassing, especially on the first try, but get him to realize that one incident doesn't mean he can never perform. Chances are he was just really nervous and that should go away after a few sessions. Good luck, OP, may your life be filled with plenty of fun (and safe) sex