FML : Today, my boyfriend told me he doesn't know what it's like to be turned on. Apparently, I've been doing something wrong for the past two years. FML

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Today, my boyfriend told me he doesn't know what it's like to be turned on. Apparently, I've been doing something wrong for the past two years. FML

I agree, your life sucks

You deserved it

By BustedEgo - / Sunday 23 March 2014 05:31 / United States - Norway

Intimacy

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By Calaraphea | 16

#5893791 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:54

Neither do I. He may be asexual. It isn't necessarily your fault, OP.

By Ashamed_Sister | 58

#5893798 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:59

How did you manage to have sex if he is never turned on?

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By Calaraphea | 16

#5893791 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:54

Neither do I. He may be asexual. It isn't necessarily your fault, OP.

domolovesyoshi | 33

#5894016 - Sunday 23 March 2014 21:36

exactly, what I was thinking.

EphMi | 5

#5894060 - Sunday 23 March 2014 23:21

maybe the dude is gay? next time you want to try something kinky, surprise him with a suit and mustache and see how he reacts.

ep27 | 8

#5894098 - Monday 24 March 2014 1:17

lol I was thinking that too.

mcrfan45 | 10

#5894932 - Tuesday 25 March 2014 0:30

I'm asexual and I can tell that he definitely might be too.. Usually it only takes a boy looking at a girl he likes to be turned on so I highly doubt that it's you that is the problem

ACTIONbl00dROCK | 18

#5900201 - Sunday 30 March 2014 13:54

Or, you're just constantly turned on.

brewer3800 | 5

#5904413 - Friday 4 April 2014 2:56

asexual... i dont think he reproduces on his own you mean gay stop trying to use words you dont know

Thekbking | 11

#6692530 - Tuesday 20 September 2016 0:26

I am asexual, so just by looking at someone I can't be turned on. however if someone is able to touch me the right way yes it will feel good to me. so obviously what results after from that is simple to figure out.

By J3R3MYY | 14

#5893792 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:55

Have you questioned his masculinity?

UberNova | 18

#5893806 - Sunday 23 March 2014 16:10

Degrading him will surely solve this!

ParanormalCat | 11

#5893807 - Sunday 23 March 2014 16:11

Masculinity doesn't necessarily affect how you get turned on. He may even be asexual.

jgmarines | 4

#5893893 - Sunday 23 March 2014 18:40

What does asexual mean?

Feklfekl2222 | 32

#5893906 - Sunday 23 March 2014 19:19

Sorry I'm if wrong but I believe asexual means you have no sexual attraction towards anyone of any gender. I think they can still have romantic attachments and suchlike

PotterHead_DH | 26

#5893912 - Sunday 23 March 2014 19:28

Boner? No?

DemosthenesMB | 13

#5893934 - Sunday 23 March 2014 19:44

#42 No; asexual is a term in biology that refers to an organism that reproduces by itself.

Lacist | 19

#5893965 - Sunday 23 March 2014 20:22

#48 That's asexual reproduction...
Asexuality itself is different.

Rainhawk94 | 27

#5893972 - Sunday 23 March 2014 20:34

Have you questioned yours brah? You do have Justin bieber as your picture

lafcadi0 | 7

#5894004 - Sunday 23 March 2014 21:14

What does masculinity have to do with being turned on? Women get turned on. If you meant that you think he's gay, gay people also get turned on.

swick25 | 22

#5894069 - Sunday 23 March 2014 23:47

Ahahahaha #55......

SpicyDuck | 22

#5894070 - Sunday 23 March 2014 23:48

@58, yes however if ops boyfriend isn't turned on by her or other females he may have been with then maybe he could be turned on by men and just doesn't know it or isn't comfortable with it enough to say something.

glabberfasted | 16

#5894081 - Monday 24 March 2014 0:31

68 - But he specifically said he doesn't know what it feels like to be turned on. If he were gay, he'd have been turned on buy another guy before.

Ki11erC | 18

#5894097 - Monday 24 March 2014 1:17

70: not everyone buys sex.

knoxxx | 22

#5894455 - Monday 24 March 2014 11:11

72: True, but he has likely come into close personal contact with men in his lifetime, during which, if he was gay, he would have also likely developed some sort of sexual attraction towards at least one man.

By kjack49044 | 18

#5893793 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:55

It's not your fault if he can't communicate, OP.

TheHolyJuiceBox | 5

#5894263 - Monday 24 March 2014 4:26

clearly he did communicate. otherwise she wouldn't have known

By WarriorBl00d | 9

#5893796 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:58

Well he really seems very uninterested

1tsmenoah | 20

#5894043 - Sunday 23 March 2014 22:15

No, not at all

By stryder9090 | 28

#5893797 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:58

find that light switch

By Ashamed_Sister | 58

#5893798 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:59

How did you manage to have sex if he is never turned on?

winterkills | 7

#5893834 - Sunday 23 March 2014 16:49

I've encountered girls like OP. There's some general rules you follow but some girls are just bad. They say things that are naturally turn offs or just offensive in general. Sex is fun regardless for guys, but it doesn't mean the girl knows how to turn you on.

TunaFireStarter | 16

#5893865 - Sunday 23 March 2014 17:44

Physical arousal does not always equate to certain mental states. It can be purely physical.

Plus there is always the chance that they haven't actually done the deed yet.

BoltTheSuperdog | 22

#5893883 - Sunday 23 March 2014 18:08

He also might have been previously turned-on and just not known that he was.

littlekellilee | 45

#5893891 - Sunday 23 March 2014 18:34

24 there are some really bad guys in bed too that don't turn the girl on at all. I've had guys just lay there and assume I'm there to make them feel good, regardless of how I feel. Having good sex doesn't depend on the woman.

Honema | 16

#5893933 - Sunday 23 March 2014 19:43

#24 yup it means no sexual attraction.
you can still get boners but not from mental stimulli

JBChristian | 46

#5894042 - Sunday 23 March 2014 22:14

#38 It depends on both partners. I'm sure no one is satisfied sleeping with a plank.

NoNamesFree | 8

#5894227 - Monday 24 March 2014 3:33

Maybe they haven't had sex? Not everyone does it before marriage..

By golferman72 | 16

#5893799 - Sunday 23 March 2014 15:59

Ask him if he knows what it's like to be single hehe

SgtAssCheeks | 21

#5893862 - Sunday 23 March 2014 17:39

Yeah, that should definitely turn him on beyond words.

lylotrezor | 20

#5894544 - Monday 24 March 2014 13:39

I've had a guy have a boner while I was breaking up with him once. It was awkward.

By askullnamedbilly | 33

#5893800 - Sunday 23 March 2014 16:00

His fault for not saying anything for two years. Talk to him to find out if it's a general problem for him or if he wants to try to do something different in the bedroom.