ya but when you sucked at it and came too quickly she gave you a look of disappointment and the fact that she didnt even kno that til after u got married shows how uncomfortable you are with each other are you divorced yet because if you're marrying a girl that you can't even talk about sex with there's somehting wrong there.

#60, I thought there was something called "third base" that would have fixed at least half of that problem. Silly me.

She's a keeper just because she's not having sex with him?

We all think with our dicks. It's genetics, the way the human species continues. You'll probably think with your ovaries when you grow up.

So wanting sex = horndog? Sex is a meaningful part of any relationship. No it's not absolutely required, but it is still meaningful. What she has done is put sex completely off limits for him until they break up or they get married, and she made this decision long after they started dating.

Actually it means he doesn't want to date her anymore. Whether or not he loves her is up to him, not you. I don't know many adults who would be ok with this. Chances are, this is a child who doesn't know enough about real healthy relationships to even comment. Life is not black and white, good and evil. It's about shades of gray, and finding a way to make it through the day.

Wanting sex in a relationship that has gone on for two years and, presumable by the shock he displays at the chastity vow, has had sex in the past, is not a bad thing. Sex is one of the very few things that elevates true love over friendship, it is what connects you intimately and bonds you to a person that makes them mean more to you than almost anyone else in the world. loosing something like this after two years and being upset about it does not qualify him for an asshole who only wants sex... just an average human male in a long term relationship. I feel that you have a lot to learn about guys and their views on sex in committed relationships... which in point of fact do differ quite a bit from their views on sex in general. love is a funny lil thing like that.

I'm sorry if I came across the wrong way. I've always personally been against premarital sex, and so I was a little upset seeing everyone criticizing this girl for taking a vow of chastity. I would also like to say that the fml doesn't mention his age, nor does it say whether he has had sex with this girl, or a girl in the past, so it is hard to tell if he's just upset because he'll have to wait for it, or if he's upset because she's telling him he can't have it anymore. I shouldn't have jumped to a conclusion here, with no background information.

We like sex. We date girls to get sex. Otherwise we'd just hang out with our dude friends all ******* day, work on our cars, play video games or sports. Eat my ass. If you don't think we love our girlfriends, you're a moron. We do love them. We just also love sex.

@#75. OP did not reveal his identity or the identity of his girlfriend. If I were to meet OP's girlfriend, I would have no idea that she was the one to whom OP was referring in this FML. I see no reason why the OP should not be allowed to share his experiences with the online community. Furthermore, whether or not a post is demeaning is subject to the opinion of readers. If I were to post on MyLifeIsG that my brother got a nice scholarship for some prestigious university (such an anecdote would probably not be accepted, but it's just for the sake of illustration), there might be a reader who has a negative attitude toward education in general and voices his/her opinion about how he's stockpiling useless and elitist knowledge while being a drain on the economy by taking the university's money rather than going out and working. Would that make me demeaning? No. Facts are facts; OP stated the facts, and they do not infringe upon anyone's right to privacy (as I argued above), otherwise I am sure the FML staff would not have approved this FML. What's the matter here?

lol yeah wtf?