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She also lied to you about the abortion. Congratulations, you are now a father.
#1 dna test. If she's a big enough bitch to lie about being on the pill, she's a big enough bitch to lie about not cheating. #2 let this be a lesson, always wear a condom! And what sort of girls are you picking that you end up with the stupid bitches who trick men into being a father? #3 FALCON PUNCH! Edit: Not sure how this ended up being a reply to #1... I didn't click reply...
This is just wrong on a lot of levels. OP, I would seriously have trouble trusting her again if she really did lie. However, if it was a case of the pill failing, or her not taking them everyday like she should have been, then this is just a not so 'luck of the draw' for you. Nothing is ever 100% and honestly, if you are not ready for accidents happening, then you shouldn't have been having sex in the first place. FYL
unless he's watching her 24/7, he can very easily not know if she's taking it or not. Especially if she's doing it right and taking it at the same time every day, like...right before bed, or at an hour of the day when he's at work. And what if they don't live together? Then he really wouldn't know.
She might have not lied, it might have just not worked. Nothing is 100%, kid. Have fun being a father!
Ahh, didn't even think of that. Its 99. something % effective with perfect use, those we are only human and do forget sometimes. Even with an alarm on my phone I forget sometimes. But I said YDI and FYL because you should have been using a condom too, though there is nothing here that says you weren't in which case you are EXTREMELY unlucky. Enjoy being a father :)
So true. I was on the pill and using condoms when I got knocked up. Antibiotics weakened the effectiveness of the pill and I don't know what happened with the condoms. I am using the shot now but trying to talk my husband into a vasectomy. For some reason, he doesn't like the idea.
No, it says that it's a woman. This makes absolutely no sense.
Yeah but abstinance is no fun is it :). I was on the pill for six years and it never once failed on me. Some people can take all the precautions known to man and just be unlucky. OP are you sure she was not taking the pill? A lot of things can ruin its effectivness like vomiting or taking certain medicines however i doubt you would be posting this if you just had your suspicions to go on. FYL becuase she didnt respect you enough to tell you the truth. OPs girlfriend and others like her give other women a bad name.
Agreed with #3, makes no sense, but also, wear a condom ya twit, it really is not that hard
@dudeitsdanny I'm sure maskedman knows how to use a condom, you may be surprised by this but not all men finish in under 2 minutes. Some guys are less "sensitive" than others. When it takes a guy 15-25 minutes to finish without a condom, putting a condom on to make it "last longer" is the last thing he needs. (Unless he wants to die from exhaustion.)
Dump a cunt. You may have a kid coming but you don't need this kind of betrayal all your life.
@ #18 Why should he stay and help raise the kid when she tricked him into this? If she told him she was on the pill and wasn't it's not his fault! If however she was, as she said, on the pill. He should stay and help. Just 'cause there always is a possibility that anticonception doesn't work. If you're mature enough to f*ck you should be mature enough to deal with the consequences. If however you're not mature enough to tell the truth about your anticonception method, you can not expect your partner too stick with you.
Yes, it is totally his fault that she lied to him. It's totally his fault that he was having sex with a crazy bitch who was only thinking about what she wanted. (/sarcasm) The fact that she lied makes everything different. It means that she was actively deceiving him and he had no way of knowing how likely the pregnancy was. It means that he can no longer trust her and a relationship without trust cannot last.
He doesn't have to stick with her but he does have a responsibility to the child even if it wasn't intentional. He should be a man and at least take the responsibility. If he's a kid then he shouldn't have been stupid enough to not wear a condom. Either way he needs to take care of the child and dump the chick.
Yeah sure, get custody of the child. (/sarcasm) If she's willing to lie about being on the pill, imagine what lies she'll tell by the time they get to family court. She'll simply tell the court he's a violent alcoholic drug abuser and any other BS she can think of, he'll be lucky if he even gets visitation.
Wow, it's not the womans responsibility. The least you can do is use a condom as well, because the pills not completly effective
The pill is a perfectly legitimate form of contraception and can be used on its own effectively the same as condoms can. Although the pill should only be used on its own in a long term relationship or at least once you know theres nothing to catch. i would always reccomend being on the pill tho (as long as you can take the pill) or something like injections or implants because if a condom fails then at least you're covered on the pregnancy front.
it's called a condom. if you use it you don't have to worry if she's taking the pill. besides, if she lies about the pill how do you know she's not lieing about the herpies.