By ywouldudomelikethat - 03/01/2016 20:02 - United States - Renton

Today, I found out my ex started a Tumblr where she posts one photo a day. Each photo being a pic I texted her over the course of our relationship. My office, the bars I like to go to, favorite restaurants, my mom's place, my place, my penis, etc. FML
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askullnamedbilly 33

Tell her to delete it immediately or you'll get the cops involved. Pretty sure that shit's illegal.

Don't know about the US, but in the UK that's called revenge **** and is illegal.


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townailz 16

You're more worried about his office? Not his moms place?

Logic is... A job is your livelihood, and some jobs don't like their stuff being posted online so if it's his office then he may be fired for it. Screwing you over more than some picture of your junk online that 99.9% if not greater can even tell that's your junk.

askullnamedbilly 33

Tell her to delete it immediately or you'll get the cops involved. Pretty sure that shit's illegal.

Revenge **** recently became illegal. Get some legal advice OP.

Revenge **** is illegal depending on the state. If what OP's location says is accurate, then it is illegal in his state, and it's a felony.

That's definitely a privacy violation of some kind, as long as you didn't post it publicly they have no right to. Get a lawyer OP

You should talk to your ex op and tell her this is not okay

Or you could do the same with pictures she sent you.

Or OP can just get the police involved, since the ex girlfriend violated his privacy. She wants to be spiteful and post his penis pictures online? Then he should be spiteful and get her arrested. Hopefully he has enough proof to show that the page belongs to her.

Don't know about the US, but in the UK that's called revenge **** and is illegal.

It's still called revenge **** in the US but it's technically legal here. By that I mean it's illegal but the vast majority of people who enforce those laws don't understand how the internet works and thus just assume it's nothing to get worked up about and tell you to just forget about it and move on with your life.

It is illegal in the US, and to say that the legal system ignores it is patently false. It is a federal crime to post photos, or videos of someone else's private parts or engaging in sex acts without there consent. It has taken a while for our laws to catch up to technology but they are their and they are enforced.

Is there an option to report the tumblr account to the site's management and have them remove it & ban her?

Tumblr staff is notoriously shitty about handling harassment reports. This is probably a case where they'd metaphorically shrug and make some vague comment about "freedom of speech"

I think he would prefer to have her arrested vs just a tumblr account ban.

itssnotfunny 24

Pretty sure as long as it's woman against man on tumblr, the woman is gonna win.

She sounds like a bit of a bunny boiler. Does anything that she posts specifically identify you? I mean - does it have your name or address or photo on, or is it just photos of places (and body parts) that you recognise but that a stranger wouldn't? Either way that's really messed up. Sorry op

Shows what a shit human being she was and is. Can't stand those with no sense of privacy.

koganti 18

she is mad at you like : "If she had a gun with two bullets and she was in a room with hitler, bin laden and you, she would shoot you twice".

Why do people have text nude pics?! You've seen them naked in person. What more could there possibly be via a text message??

If they were in a long distance relationship or they just felt particularly good looking that day. I think the real question is why do people consider posting pictures of others a normal thing to do?

He just felt that his penis was particularly good looking that day? :D

OP's experience is why you never send intimate pics. To anyone. For any reason. Ever.

Go to a lawyer. He will write an chease-and-desist letter immediately to stop that. Also save as a pdf file what she had posted and sue her in a civil court. A friend of mine had similar trouble with an ex and got about 2000 Euro compensation.

I can't tell whether you meant cease and desist or cheese and desist, and honestly, I don't know which is better. I certainly wouldn't want a cheese and desist, so I doubt OP's crazy ex would either.

Send her a really smelly Stilton - that'll show her. The note should read "your actions stink as badly as this cheese".

Don't send it to her, hide it in her car. By the time summer gets here nobody will want to be within 200 meters of her or her car.

Order to desist, with cheese as incentive?