First of all, how can you tell that the father who you have NEVER met is the guy you just facebooked. How many people have the same name/last name combo? I think you just wierded some random guy out by claiming he was your father. This story sounds strange boderline fake.

that sucks. :/

I found out about all my biological father's side of the family when they found me on FaceBook. I found about 10 cousins.

Probably got the wrong guy. And even if it was the right guy, that was probably an unfair shock.

Either that or he just doesn't realize that this chick is his daughter. He might not know what her new last name is or what she looks like or anything. So how's he to know?

YDI for not "meating" him in person

hahahaha XD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no idiot, the same thing happened to me. My dad left when I was 1 so Its a bit different but let's say he left before OP was born. That doesn't mean OP hasn't seen pictures

But she didn't add him, she sent him a message and he went out of his way to not only ignore it but BLOCK her. If he isn't her a father, and simple "I think you've got the wrong person" would do nicely.

shudda sent him nudes

^ WTF

If you interpret #2 literally, I find its a bad idea to make love to your own father

How do you know that there is a man who raised the OP? You don't know why the biological father wasn't in the picture, either. Don't get all judgmental.

Well even if there wasn't a man that raised her, why would she want to know the man that had nothing to do with her this far in life? I mean, if she's never met him then he's just a stranger... I don't get how just because they have the same genes she needs him in her life. Just because you're related to someone doesn't make them family.... Families have love.

Yes, but there are a lot of kids who feel like something is missing when they haven't met a parent, or both parents, even when they are raised by two perfectly loving people. Ever heard of Darryl McDaniels from Run DMC? He was depressed half his life and didn't know why. A couple years later he found out that he was adopted. Once he had met his mother and found out a little bit of where he came from, he is a different man today. It doesn't always make sense. But sometimes, you just need to know....

It's true I'm adopted and I've met my biological mother but never my biological dad. And it just doesn't feel right not knowing...

That's true but maybe she was really excited! And that seemed the best way to reach him.