By DAMMit - 27/07/2009 08:12 - Australia
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damn that sucks but you know she really loves you don't be too harsh about the break up >
i don't think you should brek it off or stay with her. turn into the worst boyfriend you can be overnight(minus any kind of assault, that's not cool) but just be that chauvanistic, mean jerk of a guy, but not in the way chicks like. constantly tell her to cook you something, boss her around, and always tell her that you're the man and that means that you make the descisions. hopefully, that'll be enough to make her break it off with you. then just go back to being the guy you are now, and find a chick to date who isnt a crazy person.
Break her heart. She's not in love with you. She's obsessed with you. She needs to go see help. You absolutely NEVER get a tattoo of a your boyfriend/girlfriend. Even if you are married. The only time you would get a tattoo of someone's name is if you're BLOOD RELATED.
Wow... name tattoos are horrible. Guess it shows she really loves you tho!
the chick is stupid and a pyscho for getting a name tattoo. think of it this way. today i got a tattoo of my and my boyfriend's name on it because i thought it would help are relationship that seemed to be weakening. he broke up with me before i could show him. thats a total YDI in my eyes. i feel bad for the dude, the chick is a nut.
Tattoos are fine, it's the persons choice if they want one or not. It is almost always a bad idea to get a tattoo of a boy/girlfriends name. You never know what's going to happen in the relationship, and like in this story, when it's over you're stuck with it. They're a bitch to get removed, and can be hard to cover, depending. So just don't do it. OP should go ahead and dump her, but try to be as nice as possible about it. It's not his fault she did that and he shouldn't have to stay with her.
90, did you ever realize that males find it easier to rape, since they're the ones that have to be excited, and not the victim? I mean, if you're a woman, and your victim isn't interested, it's going to be slightly tricky to do a quick rapage. Also, face it, most men are not going to mind being 'raped' by a woman, as long as she's not too ugly or fat or skinny. Why do you think so many female teachers 'rape' their kids? The kid enjoys it and won't tell anyone; yet very few male teachers try it because they get ratted out immediately (not that I'm complaining; that's a good thing, male teachers should learn to keep away).
115, you clearly don't understand much about rape if you think it's not possible for a female to rape a male. Rape is sex without consent. An erection is not consent, and can be achieved through the use of drugs (not just excitement). I should also point out that your example of female teachers raping their male students not being rape because they secretly want it is incorrect - young men can have erections through fear. Or, as I pointed out before, an erection IS NOT CONSENT. Even if the male did not have an erection at all, there are ways in which a woman can rape a man. You would still consider it rape if a man raped a woman with an object, so why would you not think it the same if a woman were to use one? It is your kind of ignorance that causes males to be so unwilling to report rape.
also an erection can happen without the consent of the "higher brain" consent. A body can become excited through kissing and stuff without the PERSON himself wanting to have sex. An a rapist gets off on forcing someone to have sex. It's usually that they are a serial rapist and they just like the aggression and force used in rape, or they want to have sex with a person so badly that they force them to. So yea, women can rape a man just as much as a man can rape a woman. But often times, because the male rape victim has to have an erection to be raped, they believe that they wanted it and that it's their own fault. So they don't come forward and they don't get as much public sympathy as a woman would.
plus plenty of "rapes" aren't really rapes... one of my friends got accused of raping this girl who -regretted- the one night stand even though she gave consent the whole way through... yeah took a while to sort that out o.O and it happens more often than you'd think