By ihatebadkids - 24/6/2019 07:07 - United States - Hesperia
Today, I was uninvited from every family event henceforth, because I finally had it and told my sister that I can’t stand to be around her horribly misbehaved kids. They have screaming meltdown tantrums, throw and break things, start fights and steal. How am I the bad guy? FML
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By  RichardPencil  |  27

You’re the bad guy because you expressed yourself badly.

You should be slipping them candy at all times, tell them which stores are easiest to steal from and reveal to the that their mom’s an idiot. You shouldn’t have to fix your sister’s bad parenting, so have fun with it!

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By  RichardPencil  |  27

You’re the bad guy because you expressed yourself badly.

You should be slipping them candy at all times, tell them which stores are easiest to steal from and reveal to the that their mom’s an idiot. You shouldn’t have to fix your sister’s bad parenting, so have fun with it!

By  courtalex  |  5

Sounds like your sister has a lot on her hands. Yes, probably needs to parent them more. But have you ever stopped to think that she can’t just say she can’t stand her kids like you can? And after every family event you get to go home and she has to stick with her kids who clearly have some behavioral issues? Maybe instead of saying you can stand them you should of expressed worry and showed that you’re concerned. Then ask what she needs and support her in trying to get her kids on the right track.

By  AmbrosiaFan  |  15

How old are they and do they have any health issues going on? Or is she a parent who doesn't give a shit and lets them rule her roost and she doesn't discipline them.

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  mssileas  |  25

...and are you and your kids still invited to family functions?

I mean, yeah, toddlers have meltdowns, but you can actually expect some kind of behavior standard that does not include breaking and stealing stuff from children.

By  ftpallday666  |  6

Dude it’s no big deal. If you have to distance yourself from your family for your own happiness, then it’s for the best. I know I did and it’s made a big difference.

By  alycion  |  35

Depends on how you told her. If you finally had it, you probably weren’t kind with your wording. Nobody wants to hear they are a bad parent and most people won’t tell someone that they are. So they will side with her. Sucks for you, but commenting on someone else’s kid’s behavior is a delicate situation.