By WTF? - 01/04/2011 15:55 - United Kingdom
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why is it time for a new boyfriend? apart from him using her things without asking, he's done nothing wrong. op should sit him down and talk to him about her personal property, but make it clear she supports and cares for him. this will be difficult and embarrassing for him and the people who care for him can make it easier. coming to grips with things like gender identity or "unusual" clothing/appearance preferences should not be punished, but encouraged and supported.
I don't think she needs a new bf she should just talk to him about it ^_^ and he might not be a transsexual he could just be a transvestite I agree he should have asked you about using your stuff first but there is nothin wrong with what he was doing maybe u could buy him his own panties :/ really just talk to him :)
211, thanks! That's encouraging. I'm actually employed by a local business to talk at schools about things like sexuality and gender identity, and it's nice to hear from supportive and understanding people. Slowly but surely, we're making the world a better place.
Bwhahahha, this made me laugh! Womans underwear feels more comfortable!
gender identity has nothing to do with sexuality. neither does the satisfaction this man obviously takes from presenting himself in a more traditionally female manner. my sex is female, but i am genderqueer, meaning i fall all over the scale and am happy to present myself as androgynous. this has no bearing whatsoever on my sexual preferences.